Work in progress, I will write more later.Im self employed for over 35 yrs,mechanic/ bodyman by trade.I do like to have fun when i have time.i really am a lot younger than i am.I am young at heart,and i try not to take things too serious. That will always bring u down, take life enjoying it.I say im looking for casual, or what ever, im not desparate and those that say looking for a relationship, get serious. Are you just gona hop into somthing serious after a divorce. or serious relationship? Lets think about this we can all survive on our own if we have to.Look at the big picture.Keep things casual, you will know when it could be serious. A relationship has to start by getting to know each other. Im sure we can all fall in love with the right person.Lets get to know each other first.