I need to update and shorten this. Lol.
Let me put this first for all of you who don't want to read and/or just want to hook up. I'm not gonna be your booty call. I want the guy I'm with to be someone I care about and tested first. If you can't handle that, don't bother wasting either of our times. Thanks.
I moved here from California (lived there all my life) in the beginning of Dec. '14! I know there's A LOT to read, but its better and faster than asking a ton of awkward, random questions back and forth. And if someone can't appreciate me in my profile, then you sure can't appreciate me for me ME, in person. My name is Maddie and I'm looking for the man of my dreams. I know and I've been told that I have a good appreciation for the important things in life. I have a few piercings and 3 tattoos. I have three dogs that I love to death! I LOVE animals, especially mine. :) They're my family. I have a great sense of humor that I get from my FANTASTIC mother. She is the absolute best. My best friend. Love her to death! I live with chronic pain (fibromyalgia), but apart from that, its all good, lol. I am a little shy at first, but once you get to know me, I really come out of my shell. I love making people smile and brightening up their day. I love to write my own songs (haven't done it in a while), go to the beach with my dogs, take pictures, listen to music, and more. I love ALL types of music. Especially acoustic. I play guitar too, but I haven't done it in a while. Its been more working with clay, doing photography, editing photos and teaching myself.. I AM a bit sarcastic, lol. I love to learn more everyday, read, write, and daydream. I am very independent and opinionated, but I always try to be fair. And my MOST important thing is honesty. I have SO many aspirations, I just can't choose! Traveling, seeing the 7 Wonders of the World, becoming a dog trainer or working with horses, doing music, being an inventor, writer, photographer, and more! Most of all, an artist, no matter the form. I love to help people and volunteer. I KNOW what its like to live with pain everyday, so I am a VERY strong, young woman. I love to be around people that bring out the dork in me, lol. I am a girly-girl BUT I am a tomboy too. I love the clothes and shoes and hair, but love outdoors and UFC. UFC is awesomeeeee! Lol. There's much more to know about me, of course. Maybe you'll find out, lol. Any type of guy is fine. Athletic is great. But I won't be with someone who is conceited, has a big ego or is super judgemental. I don't have abs, but oh, I'll get there. And btw, to any conceited, non-commiting, totally shallow guys, I can lose 500 lbs before you can lose your ignorant attitude and idiotic morals. But no, looks are NOT the most important thing, by FAR. And its not like some guy has to have a six pack to talk to me. But someone who's athletic is really attractive. But, I don't exactly have a certain type. I see beauty in everything. Might sound cheesy, but that's me.
I am a sucker for:
-A guys smile
-A many-talented man
-A mature, young man
-A guy who's great with kids
-Horseback riding (On the beach is my fav., but I always enjoy it.)
-Little kids & baby giggles
-A guy not afraid to look like a dork
-Being serenaded (It happened to me quite a few times in high school. Made me blush, lol. It's definitely not a "must have". I have more than enough of those memories to last me a lifetime. Music is general can do the trick.)
-A well-dressed man
-Mustangs (A Shelby GT 500 is my favorite. I love the cars and love the horses.) I'm more of a sports car, truck, motorcycle lovin type of girl. Hehe ;D
-A good cup of coffee
-Blueberry muffins in the morning
-Meeting someone's sweet, loving family members
-A guy who can look me right in the eyes
-A guy who can be open, honest, and hold a conversation
-People who are good sports when dressing up super silly
-A guy who can be a super sweet lil cuddle bunny, but also be his "tough guy" self when he needs to protect his own and family and be able to have both qualities and control them.
-Fresh baked chocolate chip cookies & brownies
I love a guy who can cuddle. The holding hands and cuddling and little teasing nudges and cute, silly, romantic stuff. A guy I have butterflies around that is like that....it makes me absolutely melt. A guy that can watch his sports, play foosball with his boys, burp, watch UFC, do handyman stuff around the house is perfect if he also has the sensitive side that he isn't afraid to show. I love having the best of both worlds, if its possible. And I hope to God he's braver than me. A guy that can squash the spider for me and convince me to go dirt bike riding, lol. I know there HAS to be a guy like that out there somewhere, for me. I guess only time will tell. :)
And yes, I know I'm young. But I don't speak, think, or act like it. I'm NOT your average girl. And I'm a tough-ass, young woman. Tougher than most you guys too, lol. Exceptttt for with spiders...lol. ;P If you like me cause of my looks, then don't even bother messaging me. I don't like to just go date people for fun. I am looking to find my partner in crime, my supporter, my other half; the guy that I'm meant to be with. If I seem too serious for being so young, then sorry to burst your bubble. You can find your club rats somewhere else. I love GOOD people. My family. And my friends are my family. My moms friends that have known me since I was little are my most trusted friends, apart from my mom. And I'm not looking for a club buddy, sugar daddy, f*** buddy or ANYTHING along those lines. I'm not a preacher or saint, by far. ;P Lol. I KNOW how to have fun. And if the right guy comes along, he'll see that. I want someone to grow old with, ya know? Someone I can look at and smile, having that butterfly feeling, even years from now. I'm a committed girl. My life situation and experiences and how I was brought up made me that way. There is A LOT of harsh experiences in my past and present that makes me who I am. But it only makes me stronger, smarter, and a more considerate person. If you're looking for someone with no past and no problems, then you're not on here for me. Everyone has their own story. How can you cross someone off your list without REALLY knowing them? I don't expect for every guy to message me back, feeling some sort of connection. But I would appreciate atleast a reply of "No, thanks." or something, at the least. It's only polite. Sorry if this made me seem or sound stuck up, conceited, picky, rude, or ANYTHING of the sort. I swear that's the opposite of my personality. If I offended anyone or scared anyone off, in ALL honesty, that wasn't my intention. Everything