My best friend told me I wouldn't be happy if I would be alone. She is somewhat right. I want to be with someone who cares for me and whom I would care for. I don't want to be with someone just to be with somebody. I need to have chemistry with a man. I want to be in an exclusive relationship and share my forever with him. But I really don't want to get married. You have to convince me to change my mind on this.:)
Please no lies. If you have someone in your life and
you're working on your relationship, you shouldn't be on
here. Unless you have given up entirely and
have made it official to her.
That is just being fair to all parties. And don't have double standards. If it's not okay for a woman to sleep around, it should not be okay for a man as well. I do not want any drama. My life is very simple. I have a 17-year old son who soon would be in college. I have been both father and mother ever since his birth. A good kid. I have done a good job. I now have time to date and travel and hopefully find someone who likes most of what I like.
MY THOUGHTS OUT LOUD:
I wonder if one can custom order a man. I know exactly what I want... TALL, not so tall, white, well mannered, gainfully employed, funny , loving , tender, good communicator, good listener, demonstratively sweet.eye color: blue, green, hazel, brown. Body type: muscular, athletic, average, Loves music, Cleans up well. Respectful yet a little "dirty". Excited about life, about making love, traveling, laughter, kisses, hugs.. Like Captain America and Ironman! Batman and Spiderman..Somebody save me!!!
I am wary of people who show tendencies of being controlling and manipulative. My son says I have to take chances because if I don't I will never find the love I yearn for. So wise for his age!
So here I am willing to take a chance.