My best friend told me I wouldn't be happy if I would be alone. She is somewhat right. I want to be with someone who cares for me and whom I would care for. I don't want to be with someone just to be with somebody. I need to have chemistry with a man. I want to be in an exclusive relationship and share my forever with him. But I really don't want to get married. You have to convince me to change my mind on this.:)
Please no lies. If you have someone in your life and
you're working on your relationship, you shouldn't be on
here. Unless you have given up entirely and
have made it official to her.
That is just being fair to all parties. And don't have double standards. If it's not okay for a woman to sleep around, it should not be okay for a man as well. I do not want any drama. My life is very simple.
MY THOUGHTS OUT LOUD:
I wonder if one can custom order a man. I know exactly what I want... TALL, not so tall, white, well mannered, gainfully employed, funny , loving , tender, good communicator, good listener, demonstratively sweet.eye color: blue, green, hazel, brown. Body type: muscular, athletic, average, Loves music, Cleans up well. Respectful yet a little "dirty". Excited about life, about making love, traveling, laughter, kisses, hugs.. Like Captain America and Ironman! Batman and Spiderman..Somebody save me!!! And oh, I understand how it is to serve and protect, respond and save.
Some thoughts and observations:
I've seen some women boss their men around and talk down to them. How do you think these women will be once married? I've seen men do the same to women. I ask the same question,
how will these men behave once married? And we wonder why we hear of infidelity from both sides. And why most married couple do not stay married for life. Personally if someone I am having a relationship with treats me with disrespect. I will not put up with it. Nobody should anyway. I think the sex is only good and at it's best when there is mutual respect and love for each other. When you start screaming at each other and throwing insults back and forth, it's time to see a counselor or best to see a lawyer. And oh, when you start sleeping around with other people! Life is too short to be lived in deceit, dishonesty and disrespect.
YES, I AM PICKY. WHY? BECAUSE I KNOW BETTER. EXPERIENCE IS THE BEST TEACHER AND I AM AN A STUDENT. :)