My profile used to say that I wasn't looking for a relationship or the drama that comes with one. Now I have changed my mind. But I'm still not looking for the drama. I've enjoyed my single life and the dating scene, but I did not enjoy the games that are always played while dating. I just turned 40, I've played the games and I'm done with them. Done. If you are in my age group (for those twenty year old's who message me, no, I am not a cougar, but thank you) I would hope you are done with the games too. If your not then dont waste either of our time.
I am a mother to an awesome 6 year old boy, who I share custody with my ex-husband. 50/50. My last real relationship was my marriage. I've been divorced for 3 years now. It took me about a year to get over the emotional ups and downs a divorce can bring. When I realized divorce was the best option for me I began dating. I had fun with my single life but now I'm looking for somethjing more meaningful. I am trustworthy, genuine, I wear my heart on my sleeve, which sometimes in today's world is not always a good thing. If you tell me a secret, I'll keep it. If I make a promise, I'll keep it. I have my faults just like everyone. For example I am geographically stupid. Even with the best of directions I will still manage to find a way to get lost. I really should have a GPS, a compass or a map. But I wing it, thats the way I roll. I try to always remain positive, but sometimes its hard to do in this crazy world filled with dipshits. But if I'm wrong about something, I can admit it and apologize for it. I have good manners and great etiquette. I'm not a confrontational person. I hate drama. Although my sarcastic sense of humor has gotten me into trouble. I learn from my mistakes.
I'm looking for someone I can have good times with, laugh together and have great conversations. I want to feel crazy about someone again. Not psycho crazy, but someone who excites me. I want to feel those butterflies again. I love passionately. I'm looking for someone genuine, who can be themselves and not fake it. If you fake it, I am able to tell you are the majority of the time. I have pretty good intuition. You must take care of yourself and have all of your teeth. You must have a sense of humor without trying too hard. And most importantly you must be a good kisser. I love to kiss and I'm pretty damn good at it.So you dont want to miss out on that. I dont care what kind of job you have, as long as you have one. I dont care what kind of car you drive, as long as you have one. I am not judgemental, if you have a not so good past I will never judge you on it. Everyone has made mistakes in the past or acted like a douche. Now if you are a pedophile, rapist or serial killer, I want nothing to do with you.
Dont bother messaging me if you do not have a profile pic. I think its shady. Dont tell me "I have a crazy stalker on here" or "I dont want people I work with to know I'm on pof" or "I'm having trouble uploading a pic". I've heard all the b.s before, anyone with even half a brain knows you are full of shit. And NO I will not give you my email address so you can send me a pic. I will still think its shady. Also...I don't trust the one pic profiles. I think anyone who has a one pic profile leaves a lot of room for false advertising, not down with that.
I'm sure pof has burned a lot of people and broken a lot of hearts. Please be kind.
OH, And even though pof thinks I don't like music, that's complete b.s. I don't know where I would be with out music. That is just so ridiculous. I mean....who doesn't like music? I'm sure.
UPDATE 12/1/13: I don't know where all the good men have gone, but really starting to believe none are on this site. Don't men know how to be in a relationship anymore?? What a bunch of pigs you've become. Give a girl a break. Get some manners, if you lack manners ask your mother what they are and then ask her why she never taught you any. No wonder this world is such shit, you people lack the basics of being a decent human being. What a joke.