guydance: I am really ready.
Non-Smoker with Athletic body type
Healdsburg, California
63 year old Male, 5' 9" (175cm), Other
Caucasian Aries with Bald
guydance is looking for a relationship.
Graduate Degree

I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? All my kids are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 8 years

About Me
Maybe the best way to give you a bit of a glimpse into who I am is to share with you some of my beliefs: I believe that we are here to grow, to deepen and develop, and to do our part in helping the Universe to expand. I believe that the glue that holds the Universe together is a kind of Play -- not something silly or frivolous -- but an open joyous dance that connects everything and everyone. I believe that Love is at the core of All That Is -- and that under our fears and stories, it is truly who we are. I believe that there is Magic in every moment -- and that when our eyes and our hearts are open, it's easy to see this. I believe that the only response to the Universe that makes any sense at all is one of appreciation -- a quiet reverent YES. I believe that we are much much more that physical bodies -- and yet our path and play with these physical bodies is an integral part of our soul's growth. I believe that this physical dance is part of our spiritual journey, and that the invitation is always to embrace it instead of trying to transcend it. And ... I believe that it's probably time for a new paragraph.

Come on, take a chance, okay?

An Annie Dillard quote that I really love, that inspires me:

"Thomas Merton wrote, 'There is always a temptation to diddle around in the contemplative life, making itsy-bitsy statues.' There is always an enormous temptation in all of life to diddle around making itsy-bitsy friends and meals and journeys for itsy-bitsy years on end. It is so self-conscious, so apparently moral, simply to step aside from the gaps where the creeks and winds pour down, saying, I never merited this grace, quite rightly, then to sulk the rest of your days on the edge of rage. I won't have it. The world is wilder than that in all directions, more dangerous and bitter, more extravagant and bright. We are making hay when we should be making whoopee; we are raising tomatoes, when we should be raising Cain or Lazarus."

First Date
A 'First Date' sounds a bit like a professional event. Pressured, serious, epic. I prefer to think of it as an 8 year old might hold this process of connecting: he is knocking at your door, asking if you can come out and play. Of course, being 8 means that I might pout if you say no ...