At this stage in my life I am continuing the never-ending process of getting to know myself and taking responsibility for my own happiness but exploring the option of a partner to settle down with. I will eventually be ready for the addition of this partnership to my life and would love to settle down and have a family with the right person but at this moment in time I am focused on work and school.
After ten years of Southern Florida I chose to relocate to Austin to find intelligent down-to-earth creative souls ( I am from Vancouver/Calgary, Canada originally). I am a web design/developer student. I have reduced unnecessary materialism and distractions to focus on pursuing details and sources that inspire and illuminate me.
I love variety and thrive off of anything taboo or unconventional. I love people, new cultures, and my interests vary from rugby and motorcycles, to the metaphysical and nutrition. Music inspires me. I've been to over 30 countries and lived in 9. Im usually out pursuing the hobby of the week. This week is camping, film making, and eco villages but I am always pursuing something new and different (Last week was pyrotechnics, aerial acrobatics, and burlesque.) Spiritual development is very important to me yet I am not a supporter of religion and the G word usually makes me cringe.
In a partner or date I am looking for someone who is passionate, intelligent, compassionate, adventurous, sensitive, open and able to communicate, don't make me guess! I am put off by someone who lacks depth or character. If you live vicariously through other people you are on the wrong page. I like to take risks and believe it necessary part of life in order to breakthrough the mundane to achieve the extraordinary. I am looking for someone who is equally capable of challenging me as they are of being supportive. That being outspokenly said, I may be a tad shy initially. I am a bit of a tomboy and would rather spend the afternoon watching a rugby game than at the mall, and given the choice I would pick a coach airline ticket over a COACH purse any day of the week Mediocrity scares me and superficiality bores me. Confidence is sexy, arrogance is not. I'm am particularly attracted to people's eccentricities, it's our differences that makes life interesting and unique. I enjoy controversy but not drama!
Please don't be offended if I dont reply to a message, it's not personal I am just busy and dont have time to make this site a priority. :)
I am out of the Austin area and working out of the country until fall.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
FIRST DATE? Hmmm. It would have to be an icebreaker. Something, fun, silly random and spontaneous, which is always dependent on what is going on that evening. I think bowling can be a fun, relaxed environment that could stir up a little healthy competition. How about a moonlit picnic with a big box of fireworks in a quiet secluded destination...possibly leading to more (fireworks). Hmmm...there might have to be a campfire, with smores, and a guitar somewhere in there.