So I met someone on here who I had an amazing connection with. I allowed myself to care. I got what I asked for in my profile though, they told me they weren't interested. I was turned down. Sobering. Not sure where things went wrong or if it's even wrong at all. Worth the risk. Just wished she would have seen what I saw. None the less, still doesn't take away that she is a great person. To all the amazing woman out there... stay amazing.
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I'm more of the traditional type where you talk and get to know the person and talk about what you really want to know vs being robotic and answering the usual stuff. I always appreciate honesty. Even if it stings. I rather know the truth then to be lead on and feel like a fool. I've also come to learn that if a person has the freedom to speak their mind then they will tell the truth knowing they aren't going to be judged or reprimanded for it. If we aren't a fit then that's ok. No need to bash each other or minimize the other person to boost the ego. It is possible that 2 great people just aren't matched. All in all, lets enjoy the processes of getting to know each other. We might make great friends, lovers, business partners, or something. Happy Fishing.
POF definitely is bias. Apparently girls can pose in there thong and bra, show tons of cleavage, booty hanging out, in lingerie, topless (cover with arms or hand). Yet me in my boxer briefs done with tack and by a professional photographer gets banned. Boxer briefs cover way more then a thong and if i had on spandex biker shorts, what would be the difference? I also hear that guys on this site have a habit of uploading pics of their junk, setting their pics to private and sending them in a message.... wtf? How did I end up grouped in that category? LOL.
With the world coming to an end in a few day, I decided to be a rebel a post my pictures back up of me in my chonies! Bwuahahahaha!!! In other news, I got stood up. Yes, you heard (read) it right. I got stood up. Believe it or not. And just so you know, it happens more often then I'd like. Dam you good health, exercise, healthy eating, supplements, yoga, detox, supplements, laughing, toothbrush, showers, comb, and deorderant!!!! WHYYYyyy...!!! In brighter news, my business page on facebook is finally complete so those of you what are serious about getting a massage can look me up on there. http://facebook.com/templemassagetherapy
So the world did not end. And it still remains strange. Word to the wise, having all good pictures of yourself is not a good thing. Apparently its not normal. However being plastered and showing booty shots is normal. Later they will defend and say "Only god can judge me". If I can be judge for having too good of pictures and "posing" (aren't most pictures posed) , then you sure as hell can be judged for having the norm pics. That was my testimonial ! Lets all join hands and pray..... amen.
The bar has been raised. I'm going back to basics. No more lowered expectation or lowered standards. Ladies, you're screwed now. I've notice that people lose touch with where they come from and what their sex is. There is a masculine and feminine polarities. In a time where women are now empowered to work in fields that were male dominated, women now are able to hold position in them. Congratulation. My only request is that you leave your balls at work and show up with the cookie at home. Be feminine, graceful, classy. Having a chip on your shoulder of how its unfair has you look unattractive. With the fast pace of this world, technology, and new age thinking, less and less women cook and clean. If I can cook, clean, iron, wash clothes and more, then what good are you to me? What are you going to contribute? Some women think cause they work hard at being pretty that it will be enough. For some iditos (men) it is. But it gets old too. Sex? You aren't doing me a favor with it. Its a mutual pleasure. Seems to be guys kryptonite though. I'm constantly looking to improve on something. So when did selling out on oneself become acceptable? When did selling out on someone you want to be with or are with become acceptable? A conspiracy to keep the bar low or not address an issue. 2013.... BRING IT!!!