TenderBLH: Not looking for perfection, just perfect for me.
Non-smoker with Thin body type
Fair oaks, California
61 year old Woman, 5' 10" (178cm), Non-Religious
Caucasian Scorpio with Red hair
TenderBLH Wants a relationship
Masters degree
Retired RN

I am Seeking a Man For Long term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? No
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 10 years

About Me
I'm looking for a relationship to share fun, travel and the inevitable ups and downs of life. Also looking for someone who is trim/fit and wants a healthy lifestyle. Love all kinds of music, and enjoy wine tasting, movies and good conversation. A good conversationalist and good communicator are high on the list of needs for a lasting relationship.

Recently started kayaking and enjoy experiencing nature from the water. I live near the American River and like walking the trails.

I have a passion for liberal politics, and feel strongly about the separation of church and state. Hoping to meet someone like-minded, as the Carvel-Matlin thing hasn't always worked out well for me.

My passion for travel has allowed me several adventures in Europe, Africa, Sri Lanka, and the Seychelles. My sights are set on New Zealand or Spain in the next year or so, but I'm looking for those travel bargains to make it happen. I recently returned from 3 weeks in South Africa and will travel to New York City with my grand-daughter in June.

Above all, what I feel the most passion for is my daughter, and feel family relationships are precious and worth working at. I feel the same way about my romantic/intimate relationships. I'm warm, nurturing and someone to be relied on for non-judgmental love and support. I believe in "No Fault" dating because chemistry and personality match is beyond our control. And, when honesty is present, everyone gets to be who they are if they enter a relationship. We can't change anyone but ourselves, so finding a match with someone who is a good fit just the way they are is the goal. Enough philosophizing. :)

First Date
Having coffee or a glass of wine in a place conducive to conversation.

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