TenderBLH: Not looking for perfection, just perfect for me.
Non-Smoker with Thin body type
Fair oaks, California
63 year old Female, 5' 10" (178cm), Non-religious
Caucasian, Scorpio
TenderBLH is looking for a relationship.
Masters Degree
Retired RN

Oscar's Party 2015

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Red Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets No Pets  

About Me
If interested, please message. I'm looking for someone who is trim/fit and wants a healthy lifestyle. I work on those things for myself and know they are important to a lot of people.

I'm also looking for a relationship to share fun, travel and the inevitable ups and downs of life. Love all kinds of music, and enjoy wine tasting, movies and good conversation. A good conversationalist and good communicator are high on the list of needs for a lasting relationship.

Recently started kayaking and enjoy experiencing nature from the water. I live near the American River and like walking the trails. I would also like to learn some ballroom dances some day as it is a good form of exercise and creativity.

I truly enjoy travel, and hope to find a partner to see more of Europe (Spain, Italy, Scandinavia?) perhaps New Zealand and Australia. When international travel is done and getting on a plane for long flights is not fun anymore, then I want to begin seeing the US.

I have a passion for liberal politics, and feel strongly about the separation of church and state. Would love to meet someone like-minded with shared values, as I don't like debating or conflict around personal values.

I feel family relationships are precious and worth working at. I feel the same way about my romantic/intimate relationships. I'm warm, nurturing and someone to be relied on for non-judgmental love and support. I believe in "No Fault" dating because chemistry and personality match is beyond our control. And, when honesty is present, everyone gets to be who they are if both parties choose to enter a relationship.

We can't change anyone but ourselves, so finding a match with someone who is a good fit just the way they are is the goal. Enough philosophizing....... :)

First Date
Having coffee or a glass of wine in a place conducive to conversation is definitely my preference for a first date.

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