wistfulthought: Looking for a Kindred Spirit
Non-Smoker with Big & Tall/BBW body type
San bruno, California
34 year old Female, 5' 6" (168cm), Other
Mixed Race, Libra
wistfulthought is actively seeking a relationship.
Masters Degree

2014 Halloween! Fairy Princess!

I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Want children
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? Socially
Hair Color Black Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets Dog  

About Me
It’s always difficult to figure out what to say or how to start an ad looking for someone special. For me, there seems to be this need to paint myself in some great light, as though that is the only side that would appeal to someone else. I suppose, in some ways, it’s like attempting to sell myself. Show that I’m worthy of desire, of attention, of your consideration. *chuckles softly* Seems to be a lot of pressure there, doesn’t it?

So, here is my lame attempt at marketing us. Rather than just attempt to say these wonderful things about us, I’ll instead just stick to some simple facts. Let you know who we are and perhaps something you read will catch your attention.

We are a healthy and loving polyamorous couple. He is 39 (only for a few more weeks!) years old and owns/operates his own business. Work travel takes him away from the bay area at times. He identifies as a Dominant Top, skilled in flogging, fire play, fire cupping and electrical play. He tends to lean more toward being an introvert, actively listening to all that goes on around him and contributing to the conversation when he has something pointed to say. He’s easy going and laid back, a warm and friendly individual who easily accepts others into his life.

I am 33 years old and identify as a Switch. While I say I am a switch, I tend to lean more toward the dominant side of the scale. I love being a Femdom, exploring various avenues of play. While I can play at any level, my ideal or dream play partner would be someone who is a complete masochist, a pain slut who loves dragon tails and pushing pain barriers. I bow my head to only one, he owns me, heart and soul, and I do nothing without his explicit permission. Luckily, he’s as friendly as I and loves to play with those we have connections with. My time is wrapped up being a stay at home mother, full time doctoral student, and Social Media Manager for a business.

Together, we are raising little terrors and four legged animals that comprise our immediate family. We’re blessed with chosen family ties and relationships with some very amazing individuals. While life is certainly busy, we have this strong desire to date and see if, together, we can’t find someone who might fit into our family. We’re looking for someone who has a good head on her shoulders. Someone who knows what they want out of life and who is taking steps to achieve their goals. We aren’t looking for drama or immaturity; to be frank we’ve had enough of both in our lives that it’s time for something healthy and productive.

We don’t expect to find that connection instantly, but there’s no harm it putting it out there that we are open to the formation of new relationships/connections, be it simple friendship or something that leads to a romantic relationship. We are looking for someone who genuinely likes/cares for/can grow to love the both of us, as our dream is to find someone to fill out a triadic relationship. We’re keeping our fingers crossed that we’ll cross paths with a wonderful soul who’ll add so much positivity, love and warmth to our lives as we want to do the same for them.

So, you mythical “unicorn”, if you happen across this posting and like what you read, please do not hesitate to reach out to us. We would love to hear from you! *smiles* And, if you read this and just think we sound like good people, feel free to shoot us a message! We’re always open to making new friends.

Hope to hear from you soon!