Recently relocated back to southern California after being away for a long time.
Here's a glimpse of my outlook and some tidbits about me:
Life is too short for "fillers." What I mean by that is, I would prefer to be single than be with a guy whom I know iis not right for me. I'm comfortable in my skin and can still have fun, solo or with friend. However, experiences are special when there's someone special to share them with.
As I've grown, I've realized that giving someone your time is a valuable gift. It's also something I've taken for granted in the past, but I can fully appreciate now.
I value my independence, even when in a relationship....afterall, it's important for both people to maintain some independence & individuality because you each bring more to the relationship.
I love kids and had always planned to have them, but things worked out differently. If you have them, I'm good with that..
My close friends and family are important to me and I'm fiercely loyal to those in my "inner circle."
I like to keep things simple, without fuss or drama.
Here are some of the things I find attractive in a guy:
• Courage to be honest & forthright over diplomacy or political correctness
- Smarts & fun over smarts & dull
- Direct communication style over passive-agressive
- Laughter over drama (believe it or not, some men are drama junkies, too)!
Being able to make someone smile when they are upset is a skill!
Good luck in your search for a great match and thanks for taking a look at my profile!