Hi.My name is Josh. I have been on this sight for a year and haven't found what I'm looking for . I am looking for a women who will stand besides me and who can actually be happy . I don't want be in a relationship where both party's are miserable . I'm looking for somebody who has her own life because , jaxx, is my first priority and have him exactly 50 /50 . I don't get babysitters very often , I will , and I don't believe in him meeting somebody ride get away , not till I know you are going to stick around .Also i do get along with his mother not because I secretly want her back , but because I believe that parents should be parents even if the can't stand each other . a hard working , honest guy who just wants to find an attractive , funny , smart women .I'm very open minded , and hope to find someone who will broaden my horizons. I grew up in rural Minnesota where I had a pretty limit idea of the real world .But now I have seen that , the possibility are endless . I would like to meet somebody with there own opinion , cause if I know what you want the more likely I will be able to give you it . I've been called a people pleaser but I live my life by always putting others in front of your needs cause the world would be a better place if we wouldn't be so selfish . hope to find a women to help make up new rules for the modern world . It is hard with careers , kids , friends and hobbies . I don't want some one who has to choose if we should do something or go out with friends from out of town . I say hang with friends as long as your honest and not resent me cause u didn't go out with them . Looks are important , I'm sorry , I'm not shallow just attracted to certain women . I do have a past , everyone does , I'm just not embarrassed by mine , and love the man it has made me today . I own my own construction company and have dreams to expand it cause I'm good at it . Also I will take risk if the reward is worth it and would like someone who is willing to go outside there comfort zone and not be scared to fail . In short I'm looking for an independent , trustworthy , cute , and good hearted women . So if this sounds like you and like what I have write . Let me know .