'Those who judges the colors of another, must have forgotten that the color of their blood is the same as any other”
95% of the time a compliment is just that, a kind word to make one smile and their day a little brighter. No need to assume anything more but 95% do which is unfortunate. A simple smile and a thank you if its not beneath you. That day will come when you will wish you had kept that kind word from a stranger or looked down at them when they offer to hold that door or pick up something for you. Karma is a real thing... very real.
I WRITE THIS NOVEL NOT BY CHOICE SO THAT IT IS CLEAR ABOUT WHAT I SEEK. NOT HURT NOR BITTER JUST TIRED OF THE GAMES.
Hi and thanks for taking the time to look at my profile. I'm not a fan of online dating and rightly so from experiences but it is what it is. Have we become so shallow that we raise the bar so high that we cant even reach it? Become so selfish we cant even say high or acknowledge someone being nice and sincere? We sit and judge others from the outside and by their color and we wonder why we are alone. I look forward to the day Im no longer here and that special lady and I can laugh about how we met.
We expect others to respect us when we don't respect ourselves, We demand it instead of earning it. What happened to the days where your eyes meet and you smile at each other and say hi? Words like hello and thank you are seldom used. Life is too short and before you know it's gone. It baffles me every time I come here and see all the beautiful people here. Why are they alone? what is it they seek? are they being realistic in their expectations? Ive had the honor and misfortune of chatting with a few and sometimes understand why but who am I to say and I never judge.
Laid back fun loving man who enjoys meeting people. Not struck on a cute face and a small waist haven't we learned from being so visual? What's inside a person's heart and soul should matter the most.I see people not color nor am I here to judge others. If God can be color blind why cant we in this day and time its so sad and then say its a preference thing.
Would you say that if you or your loved one needed blood or a transplant??? I'm just a guy with a big heart enjoying life looking for someone to share the adventure with. I don't need someone to make me happy, I want someone to share the happy times with.Why do we waste so much time looking for the perfect lover instead of creating the perfect love????????
I like to do things that real men do, and if you don't know what that is you haven't met a real man. I'm not into playing games, drama, booty calls(there should be a site for that), pen pals, hurting, or being hurt I just want to have fun with just one, the right one. I WILL NOT CHASE YOU NOR STALK YOU JUST BECAUSE WE HAD A CHAT. If I see you online no worries I will not bother you as we all have experienced that.
A real man will put all his might just to be with you. A real woman will give him that chance without hesitating or thinking negative. ARE YOU A REAL WOMAN????? Let Me Be Clear!! Im looking for that one person who wants to explore endure and enjoy. Im not looking for just a girlfriend but someone who wants to build a future and grow old with. I want to taste the intoxicating wine of Love again and Im willing to drive or walk over broken glass in bare feet to get to it.
I don't play hard to get but I've learn to be cautious with my heart. I'm not rude, nor stuck up. Ive been hurt, lied to, and yes have feelings as we all have or will have.I believe in love and romance. I'm no prince but I can be charming. I'm successful, happy, and determined not at all desperate, I'm no serial dater (please look it up before you use it)but Im looking, and I do know how to treat a lady. My compliments are sincere so please be kind and appreciative if you can, if not there's your sign. I'm far from perfect and happy to say that, if I were Id have nothing to aim for.
If we were the great catch some of us think they really are these sites would be empty. This fact alone should humble us but doesn't. If I check your profile, you wrote something that caught my eye, if I strike an interest good. if we chat for a bit then not, no worries I get the message and I wont chase nor stalk you. I leave that to the desperate and the dogs. I can be picky like most but I'm not shallow like many. I'm not looking for what you do or have I have my own.
I seek someone who has a great sense of humor, enjoys movies, isn't afraid, daring, and doesnt always have to be in control. Someone who appreciates being treated nice and having someone who listens. Someone who wants to stop reading about the fairy tale romance and live it. Someone whose heart races in anticipation of my touch, who gets weak in the knees when we kiss, whispers"Oh My God" when we embrace. someone who wants a man who can make her eyes roll and forget her name when the time is right. Am I asking for too much?? I'm not looking for a date I seek much much more. Dating is easy, romance requires putting in the work and making the commitment something many are afraid of or are incapable of doing. Yet many who bring little to the table fail to understand the concept of you get what you give. Life is too short to wonder aimlessly and not be realistic.
Someone who has a spontaneous/daring side. Down to earth not selfish or shallow, paints every man with the same brush, incredible kisser,color blind, loves PDA. Someone looking forward not living in the past. A good friend and great lover of life. Some who can watch the sun set and not kill the moment. Someone who can compliment my life not complicate it and I do the same.
I'm looking for that person who does something without having to have it validated or expect something material in return, someone secure. Someone who can separate their career from their identity. Meaning your job is what you do not who you are. Someone who has something unique to bring to the table. If your job/career controls your life you have no time to commit to a real relationship so why waste someones time. Treat others the way you wish to be treated.
Yes I'm real, I'm no dog, However a dog is the only thing on earth that will love another more than himself, Im too old for games other than board or cards. I know exactly what I want, I'm realistic in my expectations. I'm not trying to find myself, or hide who I am.
Love is a matter of chemistry; sex is a matter of physics.
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