Im a very laid back guy thats very book and street smart n looking for somebody that can at least hold their own in an adult conversation.I enjoy living life and putting and keeping a smile on those who are around me.i would like to run into a woman that can at least stimulate me mentally...no disrespect to some of u ladies but it take a lil more than hips ass n thighs to keep my attention...ya gots to have something to validate dat. With that b
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I feel the need to add to this so therefore I will. Now ladies as my profile says I would like a relationship, not a fly by night hookup. I would actually like to MEET a WOMAN that has the potential to be a permanent fixture in my life. Im almost 30 and Ive been there and done that when it comes to having women all over the place, so therefore a casual sexual encounter doesnt even excite me anymore. I get excited thinking about the future in relation to myself and my "future ex-wife" j/p lol. At this point Im looking to plant a seed and grow a REAL relationship. I would like a woman to deal with me for me, not for what I have or dont have, but for what WE have the potential to have together. Im trying this avenue for dating because going out has become so superficial it is unreal. I know a lot you women feel where im coming from. Im not desperate nor hard-up but I am EAGER to add a new chapter into this novel that I call my life. If you cant tell by reading this, I am educated but Im down to earth. I like to cook for a woman, mainly trying new things that Ive seen on the cooking channel (yeah I said that lol). I will add one more thing, ladies, if you are not a builder and what I mean by that is someone that likes to build POSITIVE relationships with the ppl around you then keep it pushing. I dont need a woman that is so selfish that she has to have me all to herself,my family and I are a package deal. my family likes to get together when the wind starts blowing lol. So anyway I hope yall enjoyed this and I look forward to hearing from you....
You should be able to tell that Im a conversationalist, please be one as well
I also have to add this since ppl keep addressing it. No im not an unapproachable person, and no I am not into the streets in no way shape form or fashion. I dont thug, hustle, pimp, play, or anything else...IM A GROWN MAN
Ima add this too, LADIES, alot of yall have pictures from the shoulders up and thats cool and all but any straight man would be lying if he didnt want to know what yall whole frame look like I mean I see a lot of pix of women with million dollar faces with a foodstamp body....no disrespect to anybody im jus sayin tho
If you have a reputation for being bipolar/moody please bypass me. I have no time for the bs so please have your mental faculties in order ie medication, counseling, or whatever just please make sure that your ok mentally to deal with a GROWN MAN...this last part was courtesy of POF experiences