**** Due to FAKE POF profiles, I will only communicate with people via Facebook messages. We do not have to be Facebook friends, but I need to see that you are real. This means you must have more than 9 FB friends and have some sort of regular activity going on there lol. If you're interested in getting to know me, message me here and I will give you the necessary information to contact me on FB. Thanks! ****
Hello everyone! I know this is long and specific, but I'm all about not wasting my time or anyone else's. Make sure to read it all, because there will be a quiz ;-).
I'm pretty friendly and outgoing, but I can be shy at times. I am very independent. I am opinionated and have strong beliefs about certain things. I can tolerate different views on MOST things, but I admit, there are a few things that I just can't accept lol. I have children, and they are taken into consideration in every single decision I make. The person that I date probably won't even meet them for quite some time. With that being said, I don't have a lot of free time. If you understand, great! If not, please look elsewhere. Eventually, I'd mix my family life with my dating life, which would make more time for hanging out, but until then, I can't deal with someone who is constantly upset that I'm busy. I'm sorry. That's just the way it is! I like to go out and shoot pool/have fun when my kids are gone for the weekend, but I'm not the type of person to leave my children with a babysitter so I can go party.
As far as who I'm looking for, it's hard to describe without sounding picky! I'm not stuck up by ANY MEANS, but I know what I like and I don't want to waste your time. Any man that I date has to be at least 5'11". Nothing against my shorter friends, but I'm 5'8" and I wear heels all the time, so I want a guy who doesn't make me feel like a giant lol. He has to believe in God, he CANNOT do drugs, he has to have a job and have goals for his life. He can't be a constant partier. And no liars, please lol. I'd rather hear the truth, get mad, and get over it than be lied to lol. Oh, and I strongly prefer that he know the difference between their/they're/there, etc.
As far as WHAT I'm looking for, just dating or hanging out for now. I'm just returning to the area after living away for 6 years, and I'd like to make more friends. Also, I've never actually DATED lol. I've had long term relationships, but the whole going on dates element just wasn't there. This does not mean I want a casual fling, because it won't happen! I'm also not the type to date more than one person at a time. I expect the same from whoever I'm dating. If by chance our dates lead to a stronger connection, great!
If you've taken the time to read all of this, you're certainly worth hearing from! If you ask me anything that I already touched on, I will know you just saw my picture and emailed me without taking the time to actually read about who I am and what I want lol. NOT interested in that!