*Updated August 2015*
I'm 46 years old, I've been in Colorado 3 years after living in Los Angeles for 20 years. I worked in the SCUBA industry there, and definitely feel like a fish out of water here. I'm in good health, fit, but not obsessed. I'm adventurous, fun, goofy, silly, playful, and have a GREAT sense of humor. I balance these by being sincere, intense, honest, street-wise and intelligent. Drawbacks might be that I can be occasionally moody, and need occasional man-cave time by myself. However, the right girl will view that as a plus. I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve, and always speak my mind respectfully.
I enjoy diving, boating, skiing, travel, working out/diet, camping, computers, movies, poker, music, hiking, caving, and SO much more. I can fix stuff and lift heavy things. I have a cat, and love dogs as well.
Once an attraction and friendship is there, it takes work, communication and empathy to make a relationship last. I'm good at looking out for her needs and wants in a relationship, not just my own. I'd like to find my life partner and best friend.
What I’m doing with my life:
As a younger man I remained largely single. I wore many different hats, and moved around a lot. I wanted to experience as much of life as I could, and to be the most well rounded person possible. I think I'm a great choice for a mate because of my wealth of life experience.
Now, my goal is to build a life, home and future with someone special. I have realized that home isn't a place, it's with whom you share it.
I’m really good at:
Fixing things, and sometimes people. I am good with cars, boats, computers, carpentry, wiring, and all kinds of mechanical stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me:
Probably my dimple. I hate it, you have no idea how many times it was pinched during childhood.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food:
Huge movie fan - too many to list.
Walking Dead, Breaking Bad
Classic Rock, Old-skool Funk/Disco, Hard Rock, and Metal
Sushi, Sushi and MORE SUSHI
The six things I could never do without
Water, Food, Air, Shelter, Safety, Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future and the past. It's my short term goal to focus more on the present.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit:
It's not a "secret," but I'm better with chopsticks than most Asians.
The best "dates" are those for which there is little planning, but where life experiences happen. Then we can interact in real time. To me, that's where you find out if sparks will fly. A coffee or a stroll can be just as intimate and revealing as the classic dinner and movie.
On a typical Friday night I am:
I don't have a typical, but I'd like it to be with someone special.
You should message me if
*You want a first rate zombie slayer on your side.
*You are single, not separated. You are not sowing oats, seeking commitment-free, FWB's, rebound, etc.
*You are a movie fan. I will even go watch those documentaries and romantic comedies with you.
*You are height/weight proportionate, and at least somewhat fit.
*You are not extremely religious.
*You're looking for one-on-one if our situation goes further than a few dates.