I am a very independent, confident, educated woman. My friends describe me as intelligent, strong and a great mom.
I’m a single mother of a handsome and very loving 7 year old boy so if you don't like kids or do well with kids we will not be a good match.
Things you should know about me:
1. I am overweight, and I’m OK with this - it’s temporary and it does not by any means define who I am as a person
2. I am a Mom first and woman second.
3. I am not looking for a man to come and take care of me; I do very well on my own.
4. I am not looking for a baby daddy…my son already has a dad
5. I am not lazy but I can lounge all day on a Sunday afternoon after class if I want to
6. I have a great job but I am going to school so I can have a great career.
7. I'm a hopeful (not hopeless) romantic.
8. I have a car
9. I love all types of music but lean more towards alternative rock and if I need to de-stress Salsa, merengue and bachata always do the trick
10. I love books (reading in general)
I have found that most men can’t see past #1 on my list and that’s OK, we all have ‘standards’ that we’ve set for ourselves and the people we allow in our lives, myself included.
What I am looking for in a partner:
1. Have your own life
2. No drama (baby mama or otherwise)
3. No mid life crisis
4. Doesn’t need a woman to complete him.
5. You can't be intimidated by my independence.
6. Loyal, Patient, caring, self confident, goal oriented and NOT shallow.
7. Interested in getting to know ME and not my preference in undergarments or if I dress conservative or sexy (If your're lucky you will find out in person)
My time for the next year will be divided between my son, work and school (in that order), but I will find (make) time to get to know that special someone. I have my son 100% of the time and he will always come first.
That said, while I may not have a lot of time to date, I believe that it’s not about the amount of time you spend with a person as long as it’s quality time. I will put in as much effort as you do into getting to know one another.
Depends on the person, usually coffee or tea and good conversation to see if there is a connection. The first date will come later.
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Age between 35 and 45.
Live in United States
Live within 75 miles.
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