UPDATE: :) im no longer new to online dating.. :) it has been an experience.. some good, some not so good, but such is life. We are not perfect. We are human. We make mistakes. Cry. Forgive. Learn. Move on. Let the tears water the seeds to your future happiness. One thing I have learned is always be yourself. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Stay true to yourself. Love is being yourself. COMMUNICATE. Never let the sun set on your anger. You cant make somebody love you. You cant change somebody, only yourself or your situation. I don't want to be on POF forever.. I am looking for someone special in my life. I am attractive, honest, open, loving, caring, fun, clean, romantic, passionate, positive, optomistic, sexy. I LIKE ME! :) I am looking for someone with same qualities and desires. I was in a long relationship. I am not desperate nor am I looking for a long list of one night stands. I'm not looking for games or phone sex or endless texting and messaging that seems to go nowhere. I am real. I am on here looking to meet someone I'm attracted to who's attracted to me and isn't afraid to spend some time together and see where it goes. It all starts with attraction, chemistry.. honesty, sincerity.. trust, respect.. we are all on here and we are all looking for something.. I believe life was meant to be shared. It doesn't matter what you enjoy doing as much as who you are doing it with. Lifes too short. Be happy.