well taking a few pointers from the "If you want to be seccessful on POF" section(HA), I would have to say I like keeping myself busy. I never have been one to sit around. I am a pretty handy kind of guy. I collect tools like most women collect shoes. Along with a college degree, I am a certified sous chef that can cook up some good groceries. I want what everyone wants, someone attractive and nice. i was raised with 3 older sisters, who taught me alot about women and how to treat a woman. i am not interrested in dating or hanging out with someone that doesnt know how to be alone. i am looking for an adult with adult thought processes. I have lived in France and Englnd and have traveled throughout my life. I listen to a wide variety of music from 1930's and 40's jazz, motown, 90's rock and even some classic country. Just looking for someone to hang out with that knows how to trust and respect themselves and those around them.