asbifem: Smart, silly and sassy seeks kindred spirit
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Oakland, California
45 year old Female, 5' 6" (168cm), Non-religious
Asian, Leo
asbifem is actively seeking a relationship.
Masters Degree
health sciences

May 2012, swimming with ceramic fish!

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
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Do you drink? No Do you want children? Prefer Not To Say
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Black Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 6 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets No Pets Second Language Chinese

About Me
I've climbed Mt. Whitney, drummed at Burning Man, and backpacked through Central America. Enjoy museums, hands-on activities, farmer's markets, and hot springs. Art, culture, and adventure are all experiences I look forward to. My next international destination is Cuba. Is your passport ready?

I laugh easily and often; am playful and affectionate; and I treat people with kindness. Other descriptors include -- intelligent, easy-going, sensual, honest, and self-aware. I work on having most of my sh*t together, and I am a devoted mother to my son.

What I am ultimately seeking is a long-term relationship of equals -- my primary partner -- a best friend and lover. A “grown-up” who communicates openly, welcomes intimacy, and follows through on his promises. The type of relationship I want can be called "monogamish" (bonus points if you know the reference!), because I am happiest when significantly connected to someone. As long as the foundation of our relationship is strong, we can customize everything else (including any future "open-ness") into what works for both of us.

First Date
I believe that chemistry can only be assessed face-to-face. A first date ought to be something low-key and casual, such as getting a cup of coffee/tea together, or going for a walk. An environment that allows us to talk and get a sense of each other would be great.

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