Well....First....I'm 37 not 40....I am on here honestly to try and find a great guy. I am a upfront and frank woman. I am not looking for booty calls , casual sex, or an affair. I have likes and preferences. Just like men do. I am comfortable in my own skin. I am easy going. Laid back. Kind. Funny. Intelligent and Smart. Quick witted. Beautiful. Curvaceous. Generally Sweet natured. And Yes...I am curvy ...I am however So much more than that. I respect myself and I will the guy that I hope is out there. If you want to know. Ask..I prefer honest and open talking...I talk pretty bluntly. I am a mix of old fashioned and Modern. Sugar and Spice. I have Tattoos. I don't prefer to ask a man out. I was raised a traditional southern girl. We all have baggage and things from the past we bring with us. I really try to leave mine out of my relationships. I never married. I don't have any children but love them. I have a rescued puppy who is rather spoiled with love and affection. And is important to me.
I can be awkward and shy/ bashful with new people but I'm outgoing once I get to know someone better.
I like walks on beaches...art...museums ....football....hockey....concerts....something to discuss like conversation.
I cook very well...and am very domesticated.
I am comfortable watching movies from Star Wars to Horror flicks.
I can be dressed up in heels and a dress or jeans ,t-shirt, and boots.
**Lately I've met a lot of guys who don't know what they are looking for or want.
If you can't tell me what you want or talk then we have nothing in common.
Yes I do know I'm Chubby and I'm great with who I am but please don't act like you cannot see what I look like.
If you have an issue with bigger thick women that's your issue not mine. I hope you find whatever it is you are seeking.
I look for men to lead and have courage .
I don't wan to wear the pants in a relationship. I lose respect for wimpy men.
I am looking for the guy who thinks I am sexy and pretty. That texts or calls to say hey. A decent guy. That has his stuff together. Is... kind. funny. loyal. honest. stable. faithful if the time comes....affectionate. sensual. handsome would be nice. A man able to openly and honestly communicate well. I am not perfect. I don't expect him to be. Or without a relationship history. If I am not your cup of tea....I hope you find what you're looking for. If you are not mine.... Please don't be offended. Take Care....and I hope you find what you wish for. **** I'm chubby but I'm still worthy. I'm worth knowing and dating. I'm loyal....sweet and kind. Faithful. Although I've come across a lot of creeps on here ...who are only looking for casual sex...phone sex..etc ....apparently you don't or cannot read. I'm not just here for only that. Sex is awesome ....but I have in the context of a relationship...with trust ..and a connection....Love hopefully..... Then it becomes an adventure.
Coffee or tea. Talking and getting to know more about each other.
***I also wanted to say...
I don't understand being ignored or passive aggressive pushing away and pulling you back thing.
If you don't want to get to know the real me or to talk then don't waste my time nor yours
I'm not going to send you pics or talk on skype with a stranger.