Ok. I've decided to try this again. Why I'm not sure. I rarely answer half the messages I receive, sometimes I answer them long after I received them. So I am apologizing in advance. Please don't message me and leave rude messages of why I haven't gotten back go you. Damn phones are deceiving, they show us online all day. It may also appear that I've read them, but you don't know what I was doing and if I had time to respond.
I'm a busy lady. Single mom. Work. Girl Scout volunteer. Not really sure what I really have time for, but it's good to get out on occasion. Working in the service industry, I work with a lot of young people. Being a mom, same thing. Being a Girl Scout, I'm surrounded by young people and women. At this point, you should start understanding why I'm in need of a break.
I tend to find the drug addicts and alcoholics in these sites as well as in life so that's partially why this is unsuccessful. Still trying to figure out what about me seems to attract this kind of man. I don't drink. It's not that I never have, it's just not my choice of things to do with what little spare time I have. So if it's your favorite past time, please dont bother to message me. Im just saving us both the trouble.
I also find it tacky if you're not wearing all your clothing in your pictures. This doesn't impress me either. Just makes you appear to be a douche. I'm not a superficial girl. I myself am not a fancy girl, so this is the first sign for me that I'm not your type. Very simple. I wear very little makeup. I rarely wear all my hair down. Jeans. Tshirt. Hoodie. Converse. That's my usual wear.
I really should post a new picture. I suspect most pictures on here are old. Although mine are not old, this makes me realize how infrequently I take pictures of myself. So I will work on that.
I am a single mom. My girls are 15 and 13. So this is where most of my free time goes. I'm not the person who is going to spend every day and night with you. Nor am I going to drop everything last minute to spend time with you. I run 3 Girl Scout troops, I also am the community director for where I live. I love it!
Even if I just make friends with people from here, I'm ok with that. I'm surrounded by females, so a few male friends are welcome. I truely don't expect to find the love of my life on here. If it happens, great. But unlikely.
With all that said, sometimes by reading your messages or looking at your profiles I know we're not going to even be friends. So realistically, those of you who get angry I don't message back, should really be thanking me. I've saved us time. Let's face it. Most of the messages I receive are from men who haven't read mine or any other woman's profile. I know this because even with a blank profile I have received many messages that say - love your profile - we have a lot in common. Really?
Lastly, I'm not interested in the random sexual encounter. No need to send me photos of your manhood. I've mentioned I have 2 children. I know what one looks like. Please stop sending the photos.
Now that I've eliminated most of the fish in the sea... I'm ready to see what's left.