I think the key to a successful relationship is spark/chemistry/intimacy. If the spark/chemistry/intimacy is there, everything else that makes up a great relationship will fall in place. I hate this part.
First, I was married the majority of my adult life.....even though I've been single for 7 years, I think I'm awkward at dating....
If you have an active a healthy life style; exercise regularly, are into mountain biking, walking, hiking, running, the gym and try your best to eat healthy.....we have a lot in common.
How about if I tell you what I miss first? I miss driving in the car with that special someone and singing out loud or saying nothing and enjoying the silence. I miss camping, drinking wine, and dancing by the campfire. I miss that special connection between two people. You know the one? When you are at a company function or with family all dressed up, playing the part, enjoying life, but you look at each other from across the room with that "knowing" glance....and we both can't wait to get home and go straight upstairs. I miss having a special someone that gives you butterflies when you know you are going to see them. I miss having someone who I want to show off, and who wants to shoe me off…..I am great arm candy! I miss having that special someone to plan a BBQ or party with, and entertain family and friends. I miss rainy afternoons, snuggling on the couch and cooking a pot of soup with a fire. I miss having mutual goals, dreams, and aspirations. I miss spoiling that special someone and being spoiled.
I guess it’s easier to tell you what my friends say about me. My friends say I am: happy, a giver, a nurturer, a hopeless romantic, and inspirational. They also say they have never seen a good picture of me and say I'll get nowhere with Internet dating since everything has to do with pictures. My friend even suggested I get professional pictures taken. I get I am not the most photogenic person in the world, but give a girl a break. Really though ….I hated my senior pictures so much I never put one in the yearbook! Yes, they were that bad! Hehehehe! That makes me laugh!
What I say about me?
Life is great and will only get better. I have great luck, I'm so fortunate, I have a great family, a great career, the glass is always full, and I know life has so much more in store for me. I am 45 and I have been told I look 35. I am in better shape than most 35 years olds. I say I have an "average" body type, but then I am my own worst critic. I've been told I have an athletic body type. I say it’s a work in progress. I get life and I get "IT"......I may be 45 but I am far from old and I am down with most things. I am respected in my career and I am extremely professional. Yet, I can ride a dirt bike, I have tattoos, (not visible with clothes on), I can shoot a gun, bait a hook, camp, and I do all of the this with manicured nails, while wearing Chanel, and sporting a Couch bag. I am THAT hip chick! ?I am a positive, happy person. I think anything is fun when you are with the right person. I don't think chemistry or a "type" can be discovered through online profiles. A good or bad picture of a person doesn't reveal their beauty.
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