I live in California and I'm on a site that should be titled either Plenty of Freaks or Plenty of Flakes. As much as I love the weather here, especially this past winter when other states had the Polar Vortex and freezing temps., I would still try a different state for love. Yeap, I am willing to freeze my ass off and my ears and toes and deal with frozen keylocks, frozen pipes, iced over walkways and everything else that comes with winter. Winter nights can be quite cozy with the right person. I am just keeping open to the possibilities. North Carolina is looking pretty good right now ;)
I am at a transitioning point in my life although I'm missing one important part hence my search. I'll start with the condensed version...I would describe myself as goofy, fun to be with, opinionated but respectful of others, sweet but no pushover, headstrong, loyal, brilliant, witty, charming and passionate,lol. Shall I go on? Did I mention that I have a self-deprecating personality? That may be hard for you to gather from the previous few sentences. I also have Christian beliefs but I'm not a saint by any means, I still would like to find someone who shares that belief.
I have one successful ,adult daughter who is married, that's it, no other kids. I have a lot of freedom to choose what I want to do, where I want to live and who I choose to have in my life. So far I've spent about half my life in Michigan then moved to California. Not sure if I will stay here, nothing says I have to, we'll see. I'm the Captain of my own ship looking for a Co-Captain to take the wheel sometimes. Isn't the journey so much better when shared? I definitely think so!
What I'm looking for; What's important is that you're a gentleman while also having a backbone, you have integrity & class, a sense of humor and you're CHRISTIAN. If you state you are anything other than Christian on your profile, PLEASE do not bother to contact me. My preference would be someone in their 40's with no kids or you've raised your kids. I also tend to be more attracted to clean-cut men who have a current look with no tattoos and prefer to stay in shape.
Something short and sweet like visiting one of the local wineries. I find a little alcohol helps during the first meeting. I said a LITTLE alcohol, I have barely been to any of the wineries. We could discover a few together?