...I know why, I'm in southern California and dealing with some challenges in the male department. First of all, this is online, I am basically no one on here..kinda like an online job application where I am on one of many, no one sees me in person, the way I speak, listen,laugh or carry myself, how could they know just how delightful I am, lol. Second: most Californian men are not meant to be for me and clearly they do not see me whatsoever as any kind of match between the fact I dare mention religion and politics,etc.,most single males get a lopsided idea of what they assume I am like. Oh well, such is life, I'm used to being the square peg, I'm a Midwest girl and will always be, thank-you God!! Now on to the regular profile.
Hello. I'm in a transitioning point in my life although I'm missing one important part hence my search. I'll start with the condensed version...I would describe myself as goofy, fun to be with, more conservative than liberal ( minimal government is best), opinionated but respectful of others, sweet but no pushover, klutzy, headstrong, loyal, brilliant, witty, charming and passionate,lol. Shall I go on? Did I mention that I have a self-deprecating personality? That may be hard for you to gather from the previous few sentences. I know I am far from perfect (perfection is boring!). I also have Christian beliefs but I'm not a saint by any means, I still would like to find someone who shares that belief.
I have one successful ,adult daughter who is married, that's it, no other kids. I have a lot of freedom to choose what I want to do, where I want to live and who I choose to have in my life. So far I've spent about half my life in Michigan then moved to California. Not sure if I will stay here, nothing says I have to, we'll see. I'm the Captain of my own ship looking for a Co-Captain to take the wheel sometimes. Isn't the journey so much better when shared? I definitely think so!
What I'm looking for; What's important is that you're a gentleman while also having a backbone, you have integrity & class, a sense of humor also possessing some good looks would be nice. I don't need someone who feels the same as I do about everything but sharing some general beliefs and views of the world is a good thing. For the record I am neither a Republican or a Democrat, I consider myself more of a patriot than any other term.
One more thing; my job as a caregiver gives me the ability to work in any direction I choose which I have worked in several other cities so don't let some assumed distance between us make your decisions for you.
Good Luck People.