I just got home from the Jimi Hendrix -Have you ever been Experienced Show at the Santa Cruz Civic. There was a spectacular line-up of guitar virtuosos that blew the doors off the joint!!.....what an AMAZING show!..I had 5th row seats and it was SOOOOOO GOOOOOOOD!!!!....needless to say, it was an awesome experience and I think it's safe to say that I too am "Experienced" now!
***It's also safe to say that I'm a big-time Music Lover, you get extra Brownie Points if you are as well! .....(and if you were at tonights show too, then you just won yourself a new MONNNNZA!!... for having excellent taste in music!)
Ok, enough of that,....I'm going to try a whole new approach and go with the "Less is More" version. I've tried the alternative and it would appear that no one wants to take the time to read a lengthy Profile, no matter how well thought out or eloquently written. I guess the truth is, that it doesn't really matter what we write or say about ourselves, because until two people meet and determine if that "Elusive Chemistry" exists or not, then nothing else matters. If the Chemistry is lacking, then I doubt we'll reflect back to these carefully chosen words, .....or lack thereof.....that said, please don't be shy or lazy and underestimate the power of the written word though, because what you write to me is the very first step to developing a connection, which although not the same thing as the Chemistry you feel when you meet someone in the flesh, words can still trigger a certain Chemistry in the Brain, which is where everything else stems from. I want to be intellectually and emotionally stimulated by you first, THEN we can talk about the ....ahemmmm......other forms of stimulation to follow ;)
So, if you were thinking that it's OK to wait until we meet to give an effort in getting to know me, or to share anything about yourself or what compelled you to pursue me, then the odds are you may not even get to that first Date. A woman wants to see effort given up front, that's what's going to compel her to want to meet you, that's what instills some desire in her to want to have you, after all nothing worth having is going to just drop into your lap without any effort on your part and I can assure you, I'm worth the effort!
*FYI - If you were just thinking that hitting the "I Want to Meet" button or sending a "Wink" should be sufficient to show your interest and to inspire me to look your way, please do think again.......I'm just keepin it real here, OK!
I feel that in addition to Chemistry, there must be Compatibility as well though, (that goes for sexual compatibility too by the way, although I'm not one to rush into a physical relationship!) but the only way to determine if two people are compatible though, is through open and clear communication. So let's not be shy, let's keep it real with ourselves first, and then be genuine with our word and with each other. Let's not be in a rush, let's not saddle each other with too many expectations, (we can save the saddle for another time!) and lets take our time to see what develops.
There's very little about me that's typical or boring. I'm a very fun and playful person to go do a wide variety of things with, or even just to hang out with at home and listen to Music, or cook or watch a Movie........or whatever else pops into mind ;)....(I'm very affectionate too)......basically, I'm just a very happy, positive person and I've got a certain energy about me that is palpable! You really have to meet me in person to know what I mean here, because words are just two dimensional characters on a computer screen and can never fully convey what I mean. I'm looking for someone with a similar energy and soulfulness about them too. A truly self-aware Man.
The bottom line.....I'm the Complete Package! ......Heart~Mind~Body and Soul. (It doesn't hurt that I can make you laugh until you cry too!)....and when I'm in a relationship, I give myself completely to it; Heart~Mind~Body and Soul....this is what I'm looking for in return as well.
So the thing to do now, is to just take a Shot!!!!, ......you have nothing to lose and SO MUCH to gain!.......In the words of Hockey Legend Wayne Gretzsk; "You will miss 100% of every shot you don't take!"
I look forward to hearing from you,
PS.....If you're just interested in a hook-up, please look elsewhere.....sorry, just keepin it real, ....I don't want to waste anyone's precious time.
In the words of Mick Jagger, "Hours are like Diamonds, ...don't let'em waste!
I really don't care where we go.....let's just GOOOOOO!!!!!
***PS....Although my Profile states that I live in Auburn, I am actually living in Santa Cruz, however I am in the process of moving to the Sacramento/Gold Country area. I am currently looking for work in the area and once I find the perfect place of employment, then I will be making the move North. My job will play a role in where I eventually settle, but I'm leaning towards the Auburn area. Above the Fog, below the Snow! ***