I'm 41. I have a calm side and a wild side. Educated. 2 kids that I have 50% of the time. I have a great job. I'm an active member of my church. I try to be someone my kids can look up too. I'm respectful to women. I open doors. Pull out chairs. Hold umbrellas. I'm looking for a woman who wants an old fashioned romance. I want to enjoy someone's company. I want to be able to talk for hours and it seem like minutes. I want to share laughter till our sides hurt. I'm looking for a independent woman. Some one who wants to be with me not because she needs me but because she loves me. Someone whom I can carry an intelligent conversation with but she is also not afraid to be goofy. If this is you, I'm waiting.