In a woman I'm attracted to, I'm looking for someone who compliments me and challenges me. A passionate lover, a big dreamer, a constant doer, and someone whose personality meshes well with mine. Someone able to be spontaneous and creative. Someone who wants to go out and go on adventures as well as just spend the day lazing about enjoying little moments. I want to meet someone I can relax around, who I can learn from, who is willing to go do things with me, who understands a busy schedule but isn't so busy we rarely see each other, who lives close enough to make something work, who wants to keep growing as a person. I woukd like things to evolve naturally with someone I have chemistry and synergy with.
Most people go through life knowing what they want; I go through life knowing what I do not want. I'm pretty accommodating regarding the rest. :)
Life's an adventure, even in the little moments. Dates don't have to be formulaic, full of expectations and hesitations, or planned out in every detail. Even if there's no chemistry we can have a good time getting to know each other.
We could go to a park, dancing, a bar, take some sort of class together, make paper airplanes full of random well-wishes and ideas and throw them into crowds, climb trees, stargaze, yell at passing freight trains while drinking and dancing to the rhythm of the tracks, explore abandoned buildings go on photo scavenger hunts, go to a gallery opening, play pool or darts, have a picnic on a roof, take a road trip to a nearby town and have lunch, go hiking or canoeing, go out to dinner somewhere fancy or somewhere divey, coffee and chess, dress-up photo shenanigans at a vintage clothing store, try to connive our way into places we shouldn't be (hotel pools, church attics, office buildings, whatever), dress up super classy and have mixed drinks or champagne for no particular reason, get a giant paint canvas and a bunch of paint and go wild, build a pillow fort and drink gin with juice box chasers while watching bad movies and trying not to make out too much, float trip with pirate flags and water guns, snowball fight and hot chocolate, cook dinner together and dance to Sinatra or Edith Piaf in our underwear, try new food somewhere we've never been, take a bus or train out of town for the weekend to see a show, stay up all night telling jokes or philosophizing about the nature of infinity and free will, go see a play or comedy show, make our own impromptu streetside theater or dance party to take people out of their boxes, laugh maniacally and dance in the rain, just have fun and get to know each other. Let's think of more together.