Age: 42
with_the_flow2: Life, the Universe and Everything
Occasional smoker with Average body type
Pittsfield, Massachusetts
42 year old Man, 5' 7" (170cm), Other Religion
Caucasian Leo with Brown hair
with_the_flow2 Wants a relationship
Some college
Free Thinker

I am Seeking a Woman For Long term
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? No
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets Dog Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? My children are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 7 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious

About Me

12/7/13... started an LPN program. Third and final career, here we go ! Guess I'll be in school for a number of years. I'll take a breather in between RN and PA. I'd really like to have my own practice of some sort in a number of years.

Hopefully the following wont make u yawn, it is an atypically long profile and yet it there is much, much more to me. Congrats and thank you in advance , to those who actually read through it ;) !

I AM a nature spirit that lives to spend as much time outdoors as I can, coupled with spending quality time cuddling with my honey(when I have one,that is)......

Sooo about me: many layers but not inaccessible. I love to laugh.Sometimes I cry ! Its the sensitive empath and Italian in me ;) . But sensivity does not beget weakness, if you believe point in reading further mmmK ?

Spirituallly I am more on the Native American/ Buddhist side of things but I respect ALL.Was raised Catholic. Changed THAT when I was 13 ! When I pray, I pray to many different spirits and in many ways. Certain Arch Angels, Jesus, Kwan Yin, Buddha and others including deceased family.

Am pretty much a hippie at heart and most certainly a tree hugger/lover. Toured with the GD across country a number of times in the late 80's. Use to be a vender on "Shakedown Street" selling falafel and crystals I mined in Arkansas. Those were magickal and happy days. And no, I'm not a typical Deadhead. I'm not a typical anything ! I don't think they are the "best band " in the world, not even close. But I had a grand time during those dayz.

I have been in the Berkshires for over 4 years now. . Unfortunately I have yet to find the One .But I remain hopeful and appreciate what I have learned from my experiences on this site ,both bad and good. I pray they find what they are looking for.

Lots of transformations have occured within me ,karma paid and lessons learned.

I enjoy deep coversations about religion, philosophy, the nature of reality, history, all things clinical,psych,poetry,music, BoB Marly, ,nature,animals,morality,spirituality,energy..all good topics.And soooo many more.

I have loved, lost,grieved,fathered,overcome, had amazing adventures throughout this beautiful country in"most of the states besides Alaska,Hawaii and Maine
,cheated death on a number of occasions, laughed almost to cardiac arrest and abdominal rupture many times,gone to my share of reggae festivals here in the US and in Jamaica,

I AM 420 friendly and am actually an advocate for legalization for many decent and logical reasons.. Have been an advocate for 23yrs or so. Hooray for Massachusetts passing medicinal ! Its such a better alternative to the pantheon of harmful prescription drugs . Now they just need to actually open a place or two for real patients to go to, especially the terminal ones . Hellooo State of Mass, git off yer Ass !!! .
As Peter Tosh sings "Legalize it...Don't criticize it "

I am a hardwired caregiver. Have worked in and out of Healthcare for 23yrs in many different capacities. Was a clinically trained, deep tissue massage therapist for 15yrs full time. I am also a second degree Reiki practitioner.
I am at my best in crisis situations or medical emergencies OR in the woods(camping,hiking,being)....or...even better....cuddling in a tent somewhere near a river or deep in the woods next to a lake or pond. I LOVE Water and I really love Fire.

I own 2 kayaks and like to use them as often as I can on spontaneous adventures or floats throughout the region.

Have been lacking the company of someone that I enjoy being with,sharing with, really dig and am atttracted to mentally,physically,emotionally and spiritually. Yes, ALL of those things are very important to me.... I am all man but I was raised primarily by a woman and have grown up respecting and "predominately" understanding the women in my life. I am comfortable with my sensitive side ...more so than most men .I feel it a strength.

. I am not a typical Leo by any means.Though I do have a lot of fire in me . My passion and love/zest for life,love,nature,adventure,spontonaiety,art can be be quite high.But this fire sign also understands how to adjust the flames as necessary ;)

I LOVE the sun,the earth, the moon and the stars .....and will delightfully gaze upon them till I leave this body.

There is much.much more I could you might guess I like to write ;) .

Sooo anyhoo, it all comes down to ..... I am looking for a life partner. Not just a casual encounter,not a drama filled dating game either.

These are musts for me in whom I seek :

Independent in mind and spirit
Active physically because you actually prefer your body that way...for yourself ..first !
Spiritually open minded
Nature and animal lover (extra points for big dog lovers)
intelligent but not arrogant about it
not afraid to get dirty in the garden
free spirited but not "flaky or flighty" ( at least one toe on the ground please)
NO crazy Ex's lurking/stalking...please
And Compassionate
AND NOT delusional, overly neurotic, psychotic or narcissistic.....PLEASE, please, please !!!
Oh yeah, it would be nice if you had a job/ self-sufficient in whatever way and have a vehicle.

I have grown up consistently around musicians, artists, thinkers and rebels...I have a little of all in me, in bits ;) .

I am NOT Republican. Duh ! Not Democrat ! Mostly liberal but not entirely. Not political really. . They are all the same crooks once in office.

Well, I have ranted about myself enough I think ! LoL ....then again, thats what your supposed to do here isn't it ?

Ask me anything. No subject is taboo.nothing to hide,no crazies lurking in my past..hehehe, well I can't exactly say that is true.There are crazies but they ain't "lurking" ;) , promise !

Just drama. I am not a teen..though even when I was , I stayed away from drama as much as humanly possible !

To repeat myself , unlike many to most of my male countetrparts on this and other sites...I am NOT looking for a one night stand or just a sexual relationship. And yes, I am actually 100% serious and truthful about that.

I am looking for honesty,love,compassion,stability,loyalty,friendship,laughter,etc,etc,etc

Peace,Love and Blessed Be

P.S. I may be going to Jamaica for a week in November 2014. Hoping I will find someone to come with me ;) !

First Date
Somewhere in public( bar, restaurant, park ) , or an activity that neither of us have tried.