I don’t value relationships in long or short terms of time....chemistry takes it course and you either ride it or wave to it Treat me good and I'll treat you better - friends or lovers -it's all about being yourself, being honest, and riding the roller coaster!
What I love -Good kissers, holding hands, bbq's, cooking, playing pool, ping-pong, shooting bottles, fishing, dancing, cars, beach, outdoors, and traveling. I am all about fun, optimistic approach on everything, into having sex in strange places as long as we don't get in trouble lol, might send you nude pictures / dirty jokes for shits and giggles, Kids love me, I love them, family is good or friends are family. I am a huge nature nerd, pick up bugs, collect rocks, a student for biological/physical sciences, I listen to music all day, the internet is my TV, watch movies, love black and white TCM movies, and avoid TV shows unless pre-recorded.
Personality- I am a sanguine; I love to network, very sociable, intelligent Virgo/Libra, I might punch you in the arm for teasing me, hug you, bite your neck, give you a back massage, sing in the car with you, fight over the radio, kiss you and grab your butt in public. Not shy, very honest, believe in karma, it's all about common sense and respect. Don’t regret anything, call everyone babe by habit, can be the biggest tomboy but then the next day I’m a girly girl or corporate america depending on what’s going on.
Everyone needs- their space, to cuddle, go out with their friends, and Sex. I avoid drama and communication is the key to everything. I am secure, seeking a guy who can just be himself, can handle my sex drive, has an overall nice genuine attitude and is good hearted, strong, hopefully is over his mid-life crisis, holds hands, wants to fall in love again, is not afraid of what people think, can think for himself, knows what he wants, lives life to the fullest, has common sense, hopefully an aggressive but good driver, knows how to communicate without demeanor or disrespectful tones, doesn't play mind-**** games to try to make me jealous, doesn't try on purpose to hurt my feelings at any time really, realizes if you treat me bad I will say goodbye before it gets worse.
If your a true sport you can make fair, can be macho but not too macho where your a turn off and now no fun and being super stubborn which is a super bummer and a buzz kill, just because it is something new doesn't bite my head off with all the things wrong with it when he hasn't even tried it yet. Is cool with playing sport-trivia games and has fun, kicks my butt but doesn't beat himself up or get mad because I won, when I win I am not one who brags about winning that's bad sportsmanship we both know who won.
Realizes all great leaders must loose first before they can lead, there's no such thing as I use to dance but don't anymore - that just means you lied about knowing how to begin with. Once a dancer always a dancer if you enjoy it, because small-big-or tall it's been years or centuries ago will all dance unless he has a placard card hanging from the mirror of his vehicle, so with this in mind wants to learn how to dance and practice with me so we look good on the floor, takes pride in his gal and gets off being a great couple because we trust each other-have a strong bong and respect and love each other. Will have my back and never throw me under the bus unless I truly deserved it, has soiled his roots- has done the threesome and what have you and has realized ya it's all ok but knows thats not what he really wants, knows not sharing is caring when it comes to bodies and less drama, has a grip on the reins but lets the horse run without too much of a worry or fuss because she just needs to dance or she will be so stressed out she will be mean to you lol.
Wants things for the best not just him, puts the mirror down and knows how to get dirty, humorous, helpful, remembers better then he forgets, can trip and fall can talk about it and laugh about it, has goals and reaches them, Instead of lying about little or big things is exactly the opposite and is so completely honest can come off as a know-it-all ***hole, but hey honestly is being secure and a turn on for me and very rare. Doesn't play the card of silence more than 48 hours when in a disagreement and pissed off, has control and respects himself by ****ing me and not some one night stand from work or a bar because he's too drunk to drive or he drank so much he blacked out and says he doesn't remember and is rushing to his ****ing car the next morning wondering if it is going to get towed while texting me bullsh*tlies and says the reason why he didn't respond last night was because his phone died and he has been home this whole time and just woke up. Is smart enough to just know we know when you **** up, we feel it in the air, in our bones, and taste it in our mouths, its sad i wish I had a****so I could do it to you too LOL
Remember I said this, I am better and I never say no and am game for just about anything that you got on your mind and have quite a few on my list I want to do too as well so like the surprise and hold questions for after, can watch porn and not feel guilty but also not obsess with it like a kid sucking his thumb with his blanket, wants to talk dirty to me in bed and if in another language that's even better. Straightens all his loose ends up and decides what kind of man he wants to be, has a role model who is respectable, will hand wrap my Xmas gift even if it looks like crap its the effort that you put into it that melts my heart and crave, knows what length I go to make ends meet and is appreciative and takes notice on all the little things I do for you that make feel loved and comfortable, I pay attention and I try would be nice for you to want the same, perfection comes with practice - practice makes better it shouldn't be a dishonest sneaky practice your proud of or known for, tell me you love me before it's too late, life is too short we never know when our card is up, if you feel it you say it and you mean it and want it, with love comes hate and as long as respect still stands and trust is there that is balance, being in love is like double dutch jump rope, it takes a gang of tries to get in there and when you do its like an orgasm, your like "****kkkkk yaaaa " so go with it before someone else jumps in cause I'm not going to wait much longer, I want a man who knows what he wants.
Did I direct this entire what I'm looking for and make you feel like I am talking about you? If this sounds like you then it's you babe.