My pictures show me enjoying great times with great friends i've been so fortunate to acquire over the years. But clearly missing for me is a great girl to really share what life has to offer. Life has no room for games and drama. I'm hopeful i can meet someone that is also past their negative experiences and relationships they've had. Let's not make the good guys pay for the indiscretions and insincerity of other men that are out there. And let's not presume because I'm 47 and never married nor had kids that I'm commitmentphobic or a player. You'll be just lumping me in with the trash and that wouldn't be fair nor accurate. I've been in relationships most of my life and unfortunately they hadn;t worked out. One less divorced guy out there. :)
I don;t have a lot of pictures of myself, but the pictures I posted are mostly recent. I've been told i look better in person.
I was born in NYC and only live 45 minutes northwest of it. I love living where I am and still having the access to fun places in the city. I enjoy having wine at my favorite local restaurants and certainly love live music. I have an eccletic taste when it comes to music.
In the summer, you'll find me at the marina enjoying my time with friends and my boat. Also love the beach.
I hope to make it to someplace warm one day down the road. meanwhile, i make the trips whenever I can.
Physical attraction is a must for me, but certainly not only what I seek. I'm also wide open as to what attracts me. I try and take care of myself to make sure you will hopefully find me attractive to be with. i workout 4-5 times a week.
I love a girl who would love the boating life style, wear that black dress and heels, and can be comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt and relax. Hopefully she will like red wine as I make all kinds. Always ready to break open a bottle and relax to a movie. Hopefully she will be warm and will know how to treat a man as I'm a man who knows how to treat a lady. I will open and hold doors for you. I will make you feel secure and loved. I'm old fashioned that way. I will hold your hand. Probably my italian side coming out. I have a great sense of humor and hopefully she will. LOL
If you like what you read so far, please send me a note. Please have pictures. this is blind dating as it is so let's be sure we are both transparent as to who we are and what we look like to not waste each other's time. I also believe after an email or two, i'm ready to talk on the phone and meet if its appropriate to get to know the person. Some ladies feel that if a guy doesn't like to write books about himself, that he's selfish and doesn;t want to make the time. WRONG!! Too many people hide behind texting and emails. Let's go back to basics and talk. One phone call can be worth 100 emails.
Drinks or coffee. very flexible. I look at it more as a meet, not a date. If the meet goes well, then let's have that memorable first date that we can both look back at with fondness and a smile.