I try things before deciding if I like them or not, and have tried most every hobby. I'm looking for someone like minded. My family means everything to me, but I need more. I guess I would like to be able to find someone I could care enough about, to share all of life with. I'm frustrated by my compartmentalized life and find it hard to believe that I haven't found that last first date yet. And if I don't respond to an email, please take it as a polite "no thank you".
Definitely meeting for a coffee or drink first. I like to have a very casual initial meeting, it feels like less pressure. Then, if there doesn't seem to be a desire to see more of each other, we can smile, shake hands, and cast again ;-)