Outgoing, witty, sexy, extremely affectionate, authentic, caring, exceptional listener, the "bestest" friend, loyal, trustworthy, intelligent, fair, creative, passionate, funny, not demanding, down-to-Earth, low maintenance, compassionate, respectful, thoughtful, a giver, playful, open-minded, an extraordinarily supportive partner, a good cook, a fantastic kisser, an open and honest communicator, a great hostess, and a woman who possesses a lifelong passion of loving unconditionally. I never met a stranger in my life. I am not into self-preservation. Frankly, I do not even understand it. Helping someone in any way everyday is a necessity for me. I raised my children to do the same. I love to learn about new things and try things I have never tried before. If I trust you, I'll try it. The words "connection" and "respect" are very powerful to me. I am also powerfully committed to my family as I hope you are, too. I am a true Jersey woman...we hug when we meet people :we say what we mean and we mean what we say. Why would I say something I don't mean? With that said, I watch MSNBC. If you watch Fox News....it definitely will NOT work!
I would love to be wrapped-up in the arms of a sexy man's man...a take-charge kinda guy. Someone who means what he says and says what he means. A man who is powerfully passionate and compassionate, who does not think it is unmanly to cry watching Bambi, yet knows on his own how to make his woman feel protected, secure and safe at all times. A man who sees someone in distress and doesn't think twice to help. A man who is confident, smells fantastic, is willing to try new things, who adores me as I would him. A man who can make me laugh til I cry! I'm a woman who shows respect to all and expect the same of my man. Bigotry and selfishness are not invited into my world of love. I want a guy that takes charge so I don't have to think all the time. I want to find a man that has authentic passion in his heart and compassion in his soul--someone who can love unconditionally as I do and is as generous with their time and energy as I am. For the record, I spoil my man with more love in every way than he can handle...without smothering! Having it reciprocated would be refreshing! I don't care what kind of car you drive, if you wear a Rolex or when you had your last dental cleaning. Honesty, compassion, passion, kindness, integrity, respect, humor, ease in communication, being in touch with your emotions and living your truth is the real deal for me!
"Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down. " ~Oprah Winfrey
That's my kinda guy!!!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
When you ask someone from Jersey a question, you get an honest answer! So, I am not here to judge or be judged. I truly believe in order to be authentic, you have to own an emotion before you attempt to give it. If you feel it in your heart and deep into your soul...then you just know! Being from Jersey and so close to NYC, the only love I know how to give is unconditional. I am often misunderstood here in SoCal and I'm still trying to figure out why! My man.... We feel connected by a loving bond so strong we can get through anything together...We feel passionate and playful...We share our compassionate supportive hearts through our joy and sorrow....We don't want a first date...We want a LAST one!!! I KNOW you are reading this...I DON'T want a millionaire....these are tough times....I don't care what you have in the bank...I care about what you have in your heart!!!! A true man's man with the love of the right woman can bounce back from anything!!!