I'm a very sociable and personable. I have a life and I'm attracted to people that are the same way.
I love music, the outdoors, sports and traveling (when it's not excessive... ) and I also workout but I don't love it,(LOL) I do it because of the results...
My friends describe me as a fun, loving person that takes her time to get to know people and for them to gain her trust.... I'm also very honest (sometimes to a fault) but I prefer to be that way than to walk around deceiving others. I ask for the same thing when it comes to friends or any other relationship in my life.
I have a son and I'm very lucky to have him in my life. He's a great guy (he's over 18) which means I don't have to worry much about him anymore but he's still a part of my life whether he's around or not and I wouldn't change that for anything...
One more thing, I believe honesty is essencial in any type of relationship. I strongly feel that having old pictures of yourself on this site that are not a true picture of how you look nowadays is very deceiving. To me is a red flag when you meet someone and that person doesn't look anything, not even close to how they look on the picture(s) they posted. It makes me think that you're not being honest about other things. I'm not looking for perfection, don't get me wrong, but honesty is crucial. Also, I'm not in a rush to be in a relationship. I like to take my time and get to know the person first (definitely not in a rush to be in a relationship with the wrong person)
I think is important to get to know a person before even thinking about anything else.
Update: just two things I have to add to my profile to make sure we're on the same page.
1) If you email me and you don't hear back from me please don't take it personal. It just means that I don't think we're a good fit for each other after reading your profile & I don't want to waste your time or mine.
2) If you're married, in a relationship or somewhere in between do not contact me... (sorry but unfortunately this had to be said)
Good luck on this site...
A first date should be something casual in which we have the opportunity to have a good conversation and get to know a little about each other. I don't want to feel the pressure of a big expensive date and then there's no chemistry. I'm sure you feel the same way about your wallet... LOL
If we click, then great! :)