I'm one of those acts that's better live ~
I'm actually 5'9 1/2 so I prefer that you are taller than I am. I have stated that I'm athletic, yet I am also "naturally" curvy. YES, natural. NOTHING fake here and I work hard to maintain my shape. I prefer lifting weights but my Coach has me doing split Cardio 6 says a week now.
I "used" to be an endurance athlete (Olympic Triathlons, 1/2 Marathons, Century Bike Rides) however, most recently my work-outs are now weight training 4x a week and Cardio 6x a week. (UPDATE ~ hurt my lower back so Coach has me on hold until I'm 100%. I am assuming my weight training will focus on back strengthening exercises in the future.)
I do better with a gentleman who is supportive and respectful of my healthy lifestyle and if he's part of it, I consider it a bonus. My diet consists of a lot of lean protein, complex carbs and good sources of fats. 50-30-20. I tend to make most my meals and occasionally go out to either a steak house or sashimi.
I'm honest, a little old-fashioned about dating which contradicts my view points about relationships in some ways ~ that's a discussion better left in person. I will never ask for your number nor will I ever make the first contact. I feel strongly in letting a man BE A MAN and I appreciate a true gentleman. If I am interested, I will always make time and find time to spend with you.
The best way to get to know me is to meet me in person. Take your time to get to know me. It takes me awhile to warm-up to someone romantically. A lot has to do with earning my trust. I tend to wear my heart on my sleeves if the comfort level is there. I'm searching for the man that I can be myself with and vice versa. If the chemistry is there, I will let you know. I'm very honest and upfront. But PLEASE be mindful and respectful. THIS IS IMPORTANT to me......I require a gentleman in my life who knows how to address and treat a lady.
Your CHECKLIST to see if I'm your match:
Cook ~ I have my fans. Friends have special requests for certain cuisines. My son and my family are my biggest fans.
Bake ~ YUP, that too. I used to bake 144 dozen cookies (yes dozen) for the holidays because friends/family covet my cookies. Haven't done that in 4 years since I moved from my huge house in 2010
Clean ~ I don't like dirty dishes, dirty laundry....prefer a clean kitchen. But I prefer to hire someone to clean (bathrooms, floors etc.) so that I'm not spending my days off cleaning. I believe in delegating core competencies and cleaning isn't my core competency.
Affectionate ~ VERY, but only after I've developed a comfort level with you. I have been told, I'm very sweet in that sense. I know how to make my man feel adored.
Independent ~ I'm definitely not needy nor will I check up on you often. I generally will give you a lot of space, maybe too much as I've been told. But I will always make time to spend with you even if our schedules don't coincide. In other words, I give my best effort to let you know, "YES, I want to spend time with you."
Overall, I have an easy going personality.....and fairly realistic when it comes to gauging interest. In other words, unless you tell me you're interested, I won't know. And I'm fairly literal in that sense.
BASICALLY, GO DATE AND DATE AND DATE.....when you are ready to meet someone amazing in your life, then date me. :)
I feel that PoF gives you another resource to meet someone, however, I get really impatient if someone is just trying to get to know me through emails and over the phone. There's no substitute for that in person chemistry. If your style is myriad of emails/texts/phone conversations you'll find my interest waning pretty quickly. AFTER I meet you, using every resource imaginable to continue connecting sure. BUT BEFORE? I don't see the point. What if the chemistry wasn't there when we meet? I am more receptive to men who are MEN and know what they want....and get what they want. ;). So after half a dozen conversations and there's no plan to meet, I will be wishing you the best in your future dating endeavors. I know what I want and I want a MAN who also knows what he wants.
As someone who is sapiosexual, its imperative that he's intelligent and a person of integrity. Turn me on with your intellect and you've got me at hello.
ONLY interested in getting to know NICE guys and a serious plus if he's naturally a gentleman. In my book, nice guys get in the front of the line, bad boys have no place in my life. AND if you're a man of integrity, then you've got my attention. Sexy to me is a gentleman who does what he says he's going to do. Which also means that IF YOU DON'T HAVE integrity, I've already lost interest.
In turn, and in time, you will find that I'm extremely affectionate, thoughtful even in the simplest things, nurturing in ways that make you feel adored and very supportive in whatever endeavor you are involved in. I'm the one you look forward to seeing after a day of dealing with the world around you AND CAN'T WAIT to see again the minute we part. And in my arms, you'll find comfort and adoration as I know how to appreciate having that one man in my life who has my heart. And if you think you can be that man I'd adore, by all means, write to me and ask to meet me.
YOU SHOULD MESSAGE ME
You are intelligent because I'm sapiosexual ~
You are into me.
You READ MY PROFILE. You have completed your profile, have several photos up.
I'm HIGHLY ALLERGIC to cats and certain breeds of dogs. I'm highly allergic to birds as well. I have asthma and unfortunately, as much as I love dogs/cats/birds, I have to limit my exposure to them.
I know when a guy is into me. He calls. He shows up on time. He doesn't give me lip service. If he's late, he has flowers. (LOL ~ I'm a girl, I like flowers and chocolate) He makes plans ahead of time. He lets me know he's thinking of me. He makes time to spend time with me and he has no qualms about taking an hour to see me even if its just for half an hour. I've done that, if I'm into someone, you make time. I know what's important. And if you're with me, you never have to wonder that you're important. You are the priority. Period.
So if you're "THAT GUY" then you should message me!
OKAY.....so 1st Date: Its really up to you. I'm fairly easy going and fun to me is simply an attitude. If you're expecting me to make the 1st call or plan the date, I'm not for you. www.yelp.com and www.goldstar.com are great resources ~ what's important is to see if we have the elusive chemistry ~ I'm more interested to see if I'm comfortable in your company ~
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