Feel the fear and do it anyway (yes it is a title of a book) but says a lot. For me, I try to constantly surround myself with people who stimulate me. My definition of that (yes, that word can ring all kinds of bells;) is great conversation that broadens my knowledge base and fires the synapses vs killing them. If those are really firing then the more fun and intimate it becomes as things develop naturally. I enjoy quality vs quantity, brains (I am talking about the one inside your head) and a physically fit body. I have worked hard on maintaining mine so I strive to surround myself with the same. I know I want to be in a relationship with someone who enjoys traveling and has experiences that go beyond where they have grown up and currently live. I love the CA climate and terrain which keeps living here fun, challenging and ever changing, especially being born and raised in the Midwest, the CA climate ROCKS. I am independent, strong willed but also very giving and caring hence a masters in social work. I am simple...I strive for constant financial security, loving where I live, loving what I do and surrounding myself with people who want and do the same. Music is a muse to me and I enjoy it all, especially new and upcoming talented bands. I am new to this on-line dating thing, and a friend said check this sight out............ but like I said, feel the fear and do it anyway! Im not REALLY fearful, Sarcasm is VERY good thing and I am full of it:)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Just meeting up and having a face to face conversation over a drink and/or app of choice. No pressure just meet vs serial texting/emails and or a phone conversation. The only way is the old fashioned way (in my book) and that's live engagement.