Don't judge my path if you haven't walked my journey.
A girl can be your Best friend, Worst enemy, a real sweatheart or a real ****. It all depends on how you TREAT HER.
They say if you're bisexual, you're confused. If you're gay, it's a sin. If you're skinny you're on drugs. If you're fat, you look nasty. If you're dressed up, you're conceited. If you dress for comfort, you're a slob. If you speak you're mind, you're a ****. If you don't say anything, you're rude. If you're sweet to strangers, you're fake. If you cry, you're a drama queen.
If you have male friends, you're a whore. If you have female friends, you're a player. You can't do anything without being labelled... We live in a society where people can't servive if they're not judging the next person... If you're proud of who you are and don't give two shits what anyone thinks and you yourself doesn't judge then you should message me, we can be good friends.
A Little About Me:
Hi POF, my name is Amber. I wont write to much about myself on here because I believe to get to know someone, you need to meet them, spend time with them, talk to them. You cant just simply read a profile and think you know them. People lie everyday, that's why it's good to video chat so you can see if their profile picture matches their face, or meet in a public place and have a real conversation like real people do over lunch, or coffee.
People tend to automatically judge after reading a profile, so here is the basic about me I am a 22 year old single mom of three. My girls are my world, so those who chat with me need to know right from the start that yes I have kids, and if that doesn't suit you then don't waste my time. I just recently moved back to California from Arizona after a bad break up with my best friend of five years. I am back to move forward with my life and my kids. I want to find someone who can have fun so i can get out and finally enjoy a night out. I want a relationship, just not at the moment. I just need a really good friend to get me away from my own thoughts for the moment. Then hopefully form more than a friendship later down the road....
Ask me anything you want i am very open.
My idea of a first date isn't your average dinner & movie. No, I am more of a lets talk & really get to know eachother. See how much fun we can be. So for me; when I first go out with someone I like to go bowling, or go to Dave & Busters in Ontario, maybe go clubbing to see if you can dance lol. Go to Santa Monica Beach, hit the rides. Go big, go to an amusement park. Lol OK that's to big. But something that's more interactive then a movie where you can't talk & get to know eachother. & at dinner; well, you kind of just stuffing your face. Lol