LifeIsChaotic: Trying It Again!
About   Non-smoker with Average body type   City Belchertown Massachusetts
Details   48 year old Man, 5' 10" (178cm), Non-Religious Ethnicity Caucasian Virgo with Mixed color hair
Intent   LifeIsChaotic wants to date but nothing serious. Education Some college
Personality   Poet Profession Transport


dating
Out riding, 23 degrees 12/28/11





I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? Socially
Pets Dog Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? My children are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 10 years
Second Language Other  



About Me
,,Hello ladies, Iv'e been leaving this blank for a long time because I found myself using more and more of the space to comment on things that bothered me about this site. Iv'e been on and off for a number of years. Results to date are a) a one year FWB once or twice a week drinks/dinner/awesome sex and I got to share her friends who were an amazing group of people relationship that taught me to NEVER put my hand over a womans mouth no matter how offensive the sounds coming out of it are b) a blind coffee date that could only have been further from what I was expecting if she had actually been blind but I loaded her on the back of my enduro and soldiered on because I'm not SO shallow that I would actually turn and run at first sight and I wanted that coffee really badly, LOL c) a near miss with a rockin and rollerin radio rocket(te) that could potentially have overshadowed the man voted "Most likely to make a wildly inappropriate comment!" by his coworkers, in Provincetown d) several conversations that fizzled e)one woman that did that rating thing indicating she would like to meet me and got offended when I said I was flattered f) one woman that did the same as "e)" but still hasn't answered g) one that opened the conversation with "Hi", accepted my offer of coffee, and then ignored me *shrugs shoulders and sighs*. My screen name? My life is so far past chaotic that I can't begin to explain it. I wouldn't expect any sane woman on the planet to intentionally get into a relationship with me. So far they have all been pretty much train wrecks that happened when someone met me and got to know ME before they saw my life. I have slept with 26 women in my life to date. I don't cheat when I'm in a relationship but I will sleep with someone elses woman if I think shes worth the risk. I'm not functionally bisexual but the possibility exists. Not that I would ever date another man or try to be in a relationship with one but there are some guys out there that I have found attractive. Not about the looks either. It's more about the person as a whole. I care more about the whole person than the container it comes in. Please don't be offended if I'm not attracted to you. There's probably something in your profile that doesn't fit my belief system or I just don't get a spark of attraction. That might cause me to miss out on a really wonderful person but what can I say. I don't need perfect but some things don't work for me I am a wicked flirt but if we go out for a drink or dinner I'm not going to be a douche and go home with someone else. .I also won't try to flirt behind your back. I'm much more likely to introduce you to her. We might get a threesome out of it or you might get a new friend, life is full of possibilities. I have a self destructive level of attraction to women who suffer from bi-polar disorder. It's the main cause of my divorce. I don't know why it's true but it is. Moth to candle? Wanting to save someone where I couldn't save my wife and our marriage? Mixing up my love life with my love of rollercoasters and the excitement of near death experiences? I don't know the answer to that one. I am a fixer. Personally I hate fixers but I yams what I yams as Pop Eye often said. One of my greatest experiences in life was pulling a child off the bottom of Blue Springs, FL seconds after he went under. The feeling was akin to seeing the birth of my children. I'm living the worst right now. Grieving my 19 year old son who died in front of me very recently. Hows that for chaotic? I think it's the well documented urge of the human animal to procreate when confronted with mortality that makes me bother writing all this. I'm not seeking pity here. The announcement of his funeral services included these words " Bring your best stories, favorite photos, dress as you choose. Make no mistake! This is a party! Plan to have fun and help us all heal this epic loss." and "Come help us celebrate Jacobs life so that we may drive away the horror of his death!", that were in character with the values I tried to instill in my sons. It doesn't matter whether the glass is half full or half empty as long as your'e willing to share it with someone who needs it. Beauty can be found in the strangest places. If you see something you like take it as long as you don't hurt anyone in the process. Physical appearances might be what brings you together but the whole person is what keeps you going when the hotness fades,,,not that mine ever will ;). You should never try to make yourself look better by making someone else look worse because you might wake up one day and realize that you don't like yourself very much. You have no right to laugh at others if you can't first laugh at yourself. Don't start trouble but do finish it! Whoever said that laughter is the best medicine was obviously a virgin. So, that's all I have for the moment. Anybody want to have a coffee with a man who can smile, laugh, weep and cry all at once? No, wait, one thing I left out. I do read the profiles before looking at the pictures. I'm an adult(though I rarely act like one) and I've learned the hard way that no amount of physical beauty can make dating a person who lacks character a worthwhile endeavour! Thanks, TTFN, Brad

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