Hi! I'm Rachel, I'm 26& I have a 4 year old little boy who is my world. I moved up here from New Mexico. NO I am not Mexican. YES New Mexico is part of the U.S. It’s located by Texas, Arizona, Colorado lol So with that being said, as a full time mom most of my time is devoted to my child. Getting out& about to meet new people is slightly challenging. Yes I work! I am looking to get back in to purchasing. I have all my training &experience in that profession. I’m a fun, laid back, down to earth, reasonable person, very understanding, &tend to be very sarcastic I love the city, but I’m a country girl at heart. There is nothing like peace &quiet with a slight breeze through ur hair that helps clear ur head &relax. I have a big heart. I try to be nice to everyone, unless I'm given a reason not to be. Then im an A**hole, &will tell u how it is. I don't look for certain things in people I have learned everyone is different, &u can’t expect the same things out of everyone. I do how ever have expectations. I do not consider them unreasonably set.Others how ever find them to unreasonable &difficult to do. All in all I expect respect& honesty. If anything being dishonest with me is the worst thing u can do to me. It’s not so much what u lie about its the fact that u lied. Withholding information that can change the situation is being dishonest. If u say ur going out w/ ur brother but leave out the female that is accompanying u. Even if u &ur "friend" are in fact going out w/ur brother. Saying, “I’m" going not "we" are going, purposely makes the impression it’s u &ur brother. Not ur taking some chick W/u to hang out with ur brother. I am a very honest person. I give everyone the respect to at least be honest with them,& I expect the same. The naked truth is always better than the best dressed lie.Communication is a must for me. NO I do not want u up my ass reporting to me every half hour. However going day's w/out talking to me leaves me w/making the assumption u don’t want to talk to me. If u don’t want to talk to me just tell me. Don't be scared &ignore me. Save us the trouble of wondering, &say it. If by chance we do start talking &are interested enough to meet. If we hang out for a day or 3 months Please don't give me some B.S. reason on why u have to leave, or why u don’t want to see me anymore.I always try to look at the good in people. I dont understand why everyone is so set on finding all the tiny bad things in a person& digging to find more lil bad things. If ur always going to focus on the bad in a person &never ALL the good they have, u will be very alone. ur self destructive, open up a lil bit &see the good in the person ¬ run with the bad. Yes its easier to find 1 bad thing u dont like &get rid of the person &yes that might save u from a chance of being hurt, but youll never find someone to love u as much as u love them if ur not going to open up &look at all the good things &let yourself let that person in. 90% of people base how much of themselves they are will to put in &how far they are willing to go to see if it will work out on physical attraction. Even if ur the greatest person in the whole world &personality wise ur exactly what they want but If ur physical appearance isnt attractive to them its usually not going to work. Don’t be afraid to say "I’m just not physically attracted to u" yes, that is shallow but thats how humans are. Deal with it. I love to smile &laugh. If u can keep me smiling ur doing a good job. I like to go out &have fun just as much as I like to stay home with a good movie. After I had my son I havent got back in the bar partying life. Being a single mom snapping out of mom mode to let go& not consider the consequence is not something I tent to do. No I m not up tight, Im a responsible adult. I'm not going to do something that the outcome could cause having my child taken from me I like all kinds of music, except for the stuff that screams at u. I find myself listening to country more than anything I like funny& girly movies. I like mudding, camping, going to the lake, &boating. I could live at the lake, 4 wheeling, riding on motorcycles, I love big trucks &some reason I think tractors are hot. Lol. &even though I'm a girl I can still drive a Manual better then half u men can &no offense I can drive anything better then most in Ohio u can go any where in the US &there will be someone cruising in the fast lain holding up traffic & their from Ohio.The speed up slow down game isnt fun. People dont enjoy it set ur cruise control if u cant maintain a smooth consistent speed. Use ur turn signals &look before changing lanes usually there is another car next to u that u just about ran off the road &then u feel like a dumb ass after they laid on the horn for ur ass to pay attention to what is going on around u. As far as KY & IN. GAS IS THE LONG SKINNY 1 ON THE RIGHT I PROMISE!15 under the speed limit isnt acceptable. lol.. speed up or get out of the way when the person behind u is clearly going faster then u are. If they pass u bc ur going slow Put ur man ego away &dont speed up &get back in front of them& then slow down We all know ur thinking "haha F***er take that..thats what u get for passing me.. what now... Im the man" NO THAT JUST MAKES U A DOUCHE. We hate that shit.Haha Anyways 1 of my down falls would be my mouth, if u haven't noticed. I tent to not think before I speak, &I'm extremely blunt. Beating around the bush, subtle hints, &sugar coating things leads to confusion, &mixed messages. It is great to have someone tell u the truth. it might not be what u want to hear but u feel better bc u actually know where u stand Just don't be a complete ass about it. Im a girl& I like to act like a girl. I like to stay clean but I’m also not afraid to get dirty or break a nail &help work on a car. If I know thats what the situation entails Yes I have worked on my own car, pull/push a truck out of mud thats knee deep I have broke horses &rode a bull. I even once had a bear That is not a joke When I was in Texas I lived on a wild life sanctuary We had tigers, lions, bobcats, mountain lions, a mean ass fisher, a giant African porcupine that loved bananas &snored lol. Water buffalo, zebras, donkeys, giraffes, ibex goats, axes dear, pure Davies, &many others.The bear was my favorite. My son would walk around the yard to find Pecans &feed them to fuzzy(the bear) If there is anything u want to know just ask If u ask something thats already answered like "what do u like to do for fun? What kind of music do u like? What are u looking for in a man? .&.. So tell me about ur self?" I will tell u to read my profile. I read every profile of who I write &I expect the same. So if u took the time to read this u should get a freakin cookie so let me know what kind u like& I might get one for u.. lol..
SORRY:--So I guess I have to have this up
1: I am white speak to me in English not gangster slang... SUP, DA, WIT, are not words don’t start out talking to me using those. Sup sexy, wa diz up wit chu? Will not get a pleasant response or one at all.
2:SEXY: that is not my name please don’t start off calling me that. I am not some piece of ass &I will not be talked to like I am it is disrespectful.
3: I don’t really like to judge people by their age but sometimes u have to. If u are old enough to be my dad or if u are more than 2 1/2 years younger than me please move on.
4: if u don’t want kids or more kids please move on.
5: if u don’t work &don’t have a good reason for not working please move on. If u claim to have PTSD, ADD, ADHD, DEPRESSION as a ligament reason to not work but yet ur going to school full time& drunk at the bar partying all the time u can get a damn job.
6: I do not think of myself as physically fit &I do not enjoy going to the gym. Im not fat but Im not skinny. I do plan to start exercising here soon. Like walking. Start off slow. I have about 15lbs I would like to lose.
7: I smoke cigarettes daily. I do not smoke in the house thats gross theres nothing worse than opening the door &getting smacked in the face with that smell. I try to be respectful of people around me that dont smoke &that do smoke. I know it pisses me off when someone thinks its fine to blow their smoke in ur face. ITS NOT OK IF U DO THAT. BE MORE RESPECTFUL OF PEOPLE AROUND U. 1 day I plan to quit but today isn’t that day nor is it in my near future.lol.
8: if u do Drugs, please move on.Taking ur prescribed meds wrong is on drugs &yes weed is a drug. If u smoke weed every now &then i can deal with that.. every now &then is like maybe 2times a month.. Everyday or everyother day is not every now &then.I dont care if u think weed should be ok &that it is better than cigarettes i smoke. Weed will get u put in jail fired or unable to get a job cigarettes wont Weed will alter ur mind which can affect ur actions &that intern effects ur actions toward someone else where a Cigarette wont. Smoking has been proven to be a 90% physical addiction& 10% chemical addiction where weed is an addiction to the drug(chemical) its self. A Cigarette will be out of ur system within 24 hours weed will store in ur fat cells for up to 30 days.Weed is not a home remedy for pain management that is in ur head. Sure it will make ur hole ****ing body numb for a lil while but it doesn't actually help the pain.Take some damn Tylenol a hot bath &go see ur Dr or deal with it. If u hurt that bad u will go to the ER &get what u actually need not what u want.
9: If u ask me “why are u single ur so beautiful?” I’m going to tell u bc I’m an ass hole.
10: Please dont sit there &try to kiss my ass& tell me how pretty u think my eyes are It wont get u anywhere with me Talk 2 me like a normal person.