I am NOT ON HERE JUST TO HOOK UP!! Also, I'm not looking for someone waaaaay older than me (I already have a dad, thanks!) or even waaaay younger than me! I don’t want to waste my time or your's. Physically, I'm looking for a Caucasian male (28ish to 40ish) who's got an athletic body type and is taller than 5'10".
Alright, here we go!! By the way, don’t expect this length in any email because I usually get bored typing so much or I don’t have the time and I feel that when I write about myself, I tend to be all over the place as far as topics. I’m better in person. I don't mind texting, but I think it's really important to talk on the phone as well. And please don't ask me to send you a ton of pictures over text. I really do look like the girl in the photos I posted, I promise! My hair is naturally dark, but I get blonde highlights sometimes. It's also naturally curly/wavy, so sometimes I wear it curly, but most of the time I wear it straight. I have an athletic body type. I'm always looking to better myself and I would love to find someone to live a healthy lifestyle with and to help better each other.
Okay, what am I looking for? Something that is meaningful and makes sense (to me). I’m looking for an attractive, good guy to have fun with, do yoga with, meditate with, go camping with, ice skating with, working out at the gym with and running 5K/10K races with. Someone to go on tropical vacays with, teach me how to ski or how to stand up when I surf. Someone who loves dogs AND cats, is clean, likes to cook. Someone who’s optimistic about every situation and not afraid to try new things, from new restaurants, to living in another country, to sky- or shark-diving, or hiking Mt. Everest or biking Australia. Not sure I’ll get around to all of these, especially after having kids—--wouldn’t want to put my life in risk if I have a child, but I don’t want to rule anything out! Someone who eats healthily and really values living a continuous healthy lifestyle (no drugs/no 420), no smoking, if drinking - just occasional drinking--and that doesn't mean downing a handle of whiskey on a Saturday night). Someone who comes from a good family and does not have a hard drug background. Someone who believes in God, but is not too religious - i.e., I don't go nor do I want to go to church. I really value some of the lessons of Buddhism and Taoism, but I’m still a Christian and always will be -- I want my kids to enjoy Christmas, Halloween, etc...
I'm looking for someone who's charming, but respectful and loyal and trustworthy of our relationship. Someone strong who can resist peer-pressure. Someone who is not afraid to ask me out on a date and will not beat around the bush and play games (I am a little shy and somewhat traditional at times, so I need and would prefer this). I want a manly-man, someone who knows what he wants and goes after it, a man who's going to take care of me (and And nooooo, I’m not talking about a sugar daddy!!, although high financial success is greatly appreciated, as long as you still have time for me and a possible future family). I want someone I can feel safe with (physically, financially and someone who I can trust). Someone I can depend on when times get tough or when I put on those extra couple pounds during pregnancy. Someone who's not going to jump ship when times get hard. Someone who’s not opposed to counseling after marriage (I’ve never been, but who knows how things will turn out…and I’m not a fan of divorce, especially with kids). Someone who's not looking for the next best thing. I love living in LA by the beach with all the beautiful, active people, but I want to be with someone who will love me for who I am and not just what I look like, b/c I won’t look like this forever (and neither will you!) and there's always someone better-looking out there (girls AND guys!) I will, however, do my best to always be in good health and spirits because I value life and want to always want to live a healthy lifestyle for so many reasons!
Also... Music is very important to me and it would certainly be nice if we had the same taste. I can't get up first thing in the morning to Guns N Roses blasting on the radio (I would prefer to meditate first thing and have some tea and breakfast, a quiet morning to gather my thoughts.) However, I love Guns N Roses when I run or workout. I love Ray LaMontagne, Civil Wars, Portishead when I'm in a chill mood. And often the latest pop hits or Jimi Hendrix-ish when driving. I enjoy worldly music/classical music when I really need to relax. Symphony orchestra and ballet is fun (is nice to dress up, occasionally). I would try Coachella/Burning Man (just bc I've never been). Favorite venues are the Greek and Hollywood Bowl, House of Blues.
There. That’s a “little bit” of what I’m looking for! Lol! ;)
Something low key. Coffee or a casual meal to see if there is chemistry, (I'm not on here just to get a free meal). If first meeting goes well, I do expect you to ask me out ahead of time (at least a couple days before) to have a nice "first real date" (preferably dinner). I will respect your time if you respect mine. Italian, Vegan, Seafood are my pref's for a "nice" dinner date, which the first date should be! If you spend some extra time planning the date, I will spend a little extra time to get "all dolled-up!" It's always the worst when someone asks you out then says, "So what do you want to do?"