Updated. Okay I dont think I did this right the first time. I'm Tamika a proud bbw big beautiful woman (for the slow ones) If thats not your speed take your exit now:)I'm very down to earth.I can have fun any were. I work hard sometimes long hours.I'm a mom & my children come first. Im not looking for a father 4 my children they have 1. It's time for me to have a friend.I feel im ready for a relationship but need friendship first. I had to take a long break after my break up. Don't want the next paying for what the last 1 did:)Really to know me is to love me. I love to laugh.Paul Mooney all day.Look i always update my pictures when i change my hair so that's a lot.I was raised by a southern mother so i know how to cook, clean,raise kids, be a lady in the streets and a....you know the rest. Don't be afraid to message me i'll message back, but if u come at me wrong i will block you. you know who u are. Yes i had to block two crazy people.Oh if u mad at the world please dont message me. Good luck to all on pof. life is short lets make it fun.