findingmystar: Looking for a friend to be my partner.
About   Non-smoker with Average body type   City Leominster Massachusetts
Details   51 year old Woman, 5' 4" (163cm), Catholic Ethnicity Caucasian Scorpio with Blonde hair
Intent   findingmystar is looking for a relationship. Education Masters degree
Personality   Profession Manager


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I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? No
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets Cat Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 5 years
Second Language Spanish  



About Me
Hello there. Well - at our (my) age we have certainly experienced many of life’s challenges, rewards, truths, and betrayals. I want someone who can be honest, all the time – no excuses. If I do not have honesty – I will not be able to trust and if I cannot trust, I cannot open my heart to you.
I have two children – ages 16 and 10. I have raised these two children on my own. No – not as a divorced parent – but wholly and solely on my own. My children’s father has and does live in another country.
I have a job that I have worked at now for almost 25 years (in Feb 2012) – YAY! I have a house. I have my independence. I say this because I do not NEED someone to take care of me. However – partners are supposed to make each other’s life easier and this is what I want. I will do my share – I promise. I would expect you to do the same.
It is interesting because I see the words “ my children come first” all the time on these relationship websites. It is interesting to me because clearly (based on their ages) my children are dependent on me. However – I find these words confusing. Not because I expect to ignore my children over a relationship -but because I am truly looking for a friend, a partner, someone I can talk to about anything, someone I can truly count on. If my children are sick – or have a broken arm – at that moment (time), they will come first. If my partner needs me, or is sick, or has a problem, at that moment (time), they will come first. I believe in taking care of each other. If a stranger comes to me for help, food or a ride, or whatever – at that moment (time), they will come first.
I have family; I have amazing, wonderful friends. I have feelings, opinions, ideas, wishes, etc. too many to write but wish to share with someone who wants to share them with me. I am strong – very strong. I have worked hard my whole life. I want someone who truly loves me. Someone who does not have a defined set of rules on what love should and must be. Someone who does not feel the need to tell me how much they love me, because I will just simply know by the way our relationship progresses - all based on honesty, openness, commitment, sacrifice, and actions.

First Date
First date - we just meet. That's all. I see you, you see me, we talk, and then we decide from there. No commitment - could be coffee shop or book store, or whatever.



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