Hello there. Well - at our (my) age we have certainly experienced many of life’s challenges, rewards, truths, and betrayals. I want someone who can be honest, all the time – no excuses. If I do not have honesty – I will not be able to trust and if I cannot trust, I cannot open my heart to you.
I have two children – ages 16 and 10. I have raised these two children on my own. No – not as a divorced parent – but wholly and solely on my own. My children’s father has and does live in another country.
I have a job that I have worked at now for almost 25 years (in Feb 2012) – YAY! I have a house. I have my independence. I say this because I do not NEED someone to take care of me. However – partners are supposed to make each other’s life easier and this is what I want. I will do my share – I promise. I would expect you to do the same.
It is interesting because I see the words “ my children come first” all the time on these relationship websites. It is interesting to me because clearly (based on their ages) my children are dependent on me. However – I find these words confusing. Not because I expect to ignore my children over a relationship -but because I am truly looking for a friend, a partner, someone I can talk to about anything, someone I can truly count on. If my children are sick – or have a broken arm – at that moment (time), they will come first. If my partner needs me, or is sick, or has a problem, at that moment (time), they will come first. I believe in taking care of each other. If a stranger comes to me for help, food or a ride, or whatever – at that moment (time), they will come first.
I have family; I have amazing, wonderful friends. I have feelings, opinions, ideas, wishes, etc. too many to write but wish to share with someone who wants to share them with me. I am strong – very strong. I have worked hard my whole life. I want someone who truly loves me. Someone who does not have a defined set of rules on what love should and must be. Someone who does not feel the need to tell me how much they love me, because I will just simply know by the way our relationship progresses - all based on honesty, openness, commitment, sacrifice, and actions.
First date - we just meet. That's all. I see you, you see me, we talk, and then we decide from there. No commitment - could be coffee shop or book store, or whatever.
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