I work long hours and am dedicated to my work and family but am finding myself feeling a little lonely. Dating is new territory for me. Although I have been single for a really long time I haven't dated much. Spent a few years working to get my own home and now that I have it I feel like I want to have a little fun. I can be very silly at times but I take my responsibilities very serious. I enjoy playing poker, the beach, camping, and hanging out with my kids and friends. I dont know if I would make a good girlfriend or not. I'm nice and honest but don't have lots of free time. I am not into beautiful men I find them to be just a as big of a turn off as ugly men. I'm an average looking girl who spends less than an hour getting ready and I'm not looking for a Ken doll. However, as vain as I try not to be looks still matter. I don't like men in suits. I prefer a man who has what I like to think of as a masculine job. Someone handy at fixing things and who can change the oil in the car is always a little more attractive then a guy with soft hands. I can be very feminine at times but people who get to know me well often say I have a boy side. I'm not sure what that even means. If you are looking for sex then you should probably keep looking. I have never had sex with some random I met off the Internet and dint plan on starting now. I'm looking to meet people and make friends. I move slowly and am in no hurry for anything. I don't date younger men. Makes me feel wierd just thinking about it. My kids tell me all the time that I'm wierd. I laugh at inappropriate things. I can be brutally honest with others or myself. Hmmmm on paper I don't sound so good so maybe I should shut up now.