5/24 So I just got home from a spur of the moment random trip to go help a friend. I left behind my laptop (if you only knew what that meant you would understand), and just flew. My life is open to randomly go anywhere when I chose to, and financially be ok. I was once tied down by a time clock and material possessions which both cost me the dream job of a life time in the Virgin Island a few years back. Now everything I own fits in my truck and is ready to go within an hour of packing and my job allows me to work whenever I want, while make 5 times more then time clock punchers. I'm always looking for my next adventure while most are behind a desk remembering or wanting a adventure.
I found out this morning that life can change in an instant. Cherish your friends in life, and never turn your back on them. I would move mountains for my friends, anymore I just don't know if I want any?
Women complain men don't read the profiles? I say put more effort into writing them over old pictures most post. I have also heard every excuse in the book why its not your fault your age is wrong. Wow wanna talk about sending flags out of the gate? If you hate this site, that means your doing it wrong try something new. I have met some really incredible women on here, even the psychos were interesting. Most of you never gave much honest thoughts on how your gonna date, only that you want to. I feel i should be getting paid to entertain you while your supposed to be working?
people love and hate my honesty. What you read and see is really who i am, unlike most profiles here. I love my life because its nothing like other live. People want the freedoms i actually have. Clocks and calendars crack me up, they are all yours. Hey girls for those of you actually seeking a man to spend the rest of your life with, it has to start somewhere? For me I want to spend the rest of my life with my best friend, who jokes with me on OUR level. Not just mine, or yours, but ours, the one we created together doing random one off things together creating something to be proud of. No offense, but i have no interest reliving anyone's every day life only to die wondering if I lived or not? I don't care if you punch a time clock, just know I don't have to while making good money at the same time. My life story will not read like anyone's you have ever heard before with or without you (I prefer with you). Chalking me up to any other guy you met in the past is your mistake and loss. I know i'm not every woman's dream, but i know i'm one woman's WET DREAM. That is all I want. I removed the quote from my BFF because we are no longer friends.
Got a text that said, "Your adorable"
I texted back, "No, you're adorable"
Now she thinks I like her when all I did was correct her grammar...
Thick skin is a requirement not a request. If I tell you were not a match, don't take it as an insult. I am not an easy person to be with, so it comes from many failed attempts. I was just informed that my profile pic was "is a bit of a sexist statement. It implies that women in general are incapable of repairing things, so they have to call a man!". Now obviously this person did not read my profile where I praise women in the utmost respect? There is a difference between incompetence and motivation. Now my skill sets go way beyond the spectrum of hanging curtains ect ect. I can build every aspect of a house, car, boat, electronics, from scratch. So some of my female friends who are struggling financially kind of like the fact I won't charge them to fix there truck so they can smog and register it (she totally helped me out in the past I owe her big time). It's kinda handy to have an ASE certified mechanic. welder, fabricator, electrician on call. BTW I work for steaks and vodka (cheap stuff is fine). I'm never to ashamed to ask for help, and neither are my close friends. We have each others back through thick and thin.
WANTED TO APOLOGIST FOR THE FEW DAYS I WAS DOWN. APPARENTLY I MISSED A BUNCH OF MSGS?
Time to set some basic ground rules to make things easier for both of us. 1)If you are "Separated" (some exceptions just ask), then you just got a great friend. Any man who advances on a woman going through a separation is a d-bag. It's your time to find you. Own who you are, be proud of who you are, and be honest. Way more attractive big time. 3) I am attracted to "different" types of people (NORMAL PEOPLE SCARE ME). I need my mind stimulated at all times. Instead of small talk I prefer light banter (i'm good but can be beat). I can also hold conversations in all fields, if I don't know I will. The odds of you finding a more diversified person is few and far between. I live a more free life then most people and can pretty well do what I want, when I want to (with limits I make myself). I have an endless amount of history that will keep us both entertained and look forward to making more with someone. I'm seeking my balance, where in the past I was full blast. When i say full blast, you don't even know. Most people take up real estate for a lifelong career. I picked it up in 8 months while buying 4 houses at the age of 23 and kept them for 12 years. Then I moved on to bigger and better. I could care less about money, picture a miner digging a tunnel tossing the dirt and gold behind him as he digs, that's me. I don't know what I want just yet, only what I don't want. I love lifting people as I go through life because there is all to much trying to bring us down.
FYI no one plays the weak female role around me. I believe woman is the dominant species (why else would man try to keep them down), so yeah, not happening.
......Sapiosexual is the attraction to intelligence. The difference between us and other men is they pic
I love exploring new places. The best first dates have been camping (checking off lakes and rivers one by one). Dinner is ok, but cliche at the same time. I want our first date to set the standard to beat the 2nd date. Believe it or not I don't mind shopping if you dont mind pushing me in the cart and don't embarrass easily? Roller coaster, road trips, random places, all work. I believe in equality and not gender stereo typing. So expecting the guy to swoon you is something reserved for when you earn being swooned, not the first date.