"In order to get what we want, we must want more for others than we want for ourselves."
Dr. Wayne W. Dyer
Charming, witty, thoughtful, giving, loving and compassionate. Soft but well-spoken yet can be excitedly passionate about things that move or touch my life. Highly intelligent, self aware and empathic. I believe in balance. I am not a couch potato but I also do not believe in filling every corner of my life with activity just to feel my life has purpose. There is a time for work, a time for play and a time for rest and to just be. There is a time for responsibility and planning and a time to be spontaneous, goofy and to just enjoy the moment.
I love to cook and would like to share this with someone. I also love food. Often, ethnic cuisine over Americana but a good old burger and fries or a pizza is always welcome. I am passionate about music and have a broad range of tastes. I would probably die without it. I connect with it and it, often, moves me. Metal, classic rock, 70's and 80's, classical, jazz(smooth and traditional), oldies, world music(especially Celtic) are on my extensive playlist. I like culture and the arts, although, in all my years of living here, I have found this is the way this area has developed the least. However, if you know of any "best kept secret" venues, I am open to suggestions. I am apolitical and a highly spiritual person but not religious.
I'm not much of a sports fan. This does not translate to not liking sports, it just doesn't rule my world. I am passionate about golf, though, and I watch as well as play. I would prefer to participate in a sports activity over watching on TV. I am pretty competitive and active. Like volleyball, hiking and backpacking, playing golf, swimming, walking. Although, I am not the 'great outdoorsman' type. Not into hunting(don't like guns), fishing and I'll leave the camping to the bugs.
I am part traditionalist and part modernist. I believe in manners and etiquette. I believe in loyalty and devotion and people who hang in there and resolve life's 'curve balls,' rather than running away and turning relationships into just another by-product of the 'disposable society we have become. I am a 'one woman' man and only date one at a time. I believe in being sympathetic, supportive and respectful of my partner and expect the same in return. I believe a relationship is a team effort. I want someone who is an active participant in their happiness. Someone who shares in the decisions of the relationship, be it serious or fun. Someone who celebrates their successes and takes ownership in their failures and finds a way to move forward.
I'm looking for someone who is classy, intelligent, fun and affectionate. Well dressed, well mannered but at the same time can be 'sarcastically charming.' I want a strong communicator. I put all my cards on the table and don't want someone I have to walk on eggshells around. I want someone who is stable and financially responsible, emotionally capable and independent and ready for a real relationship.
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