So I haven't really dated lately. Do you ever feel just so tired from life and running constantly...for work, for family, for friends, that the dating thing just kind of Falla by the wayside and you just don't care or can't devote the time to it?! I guess that's where I've been stuck for a bit. I'm a person who will do anything for her friends or family and I just don't have the energy to put into a stranger, ya know? It's not that I don't want it, it's just that sometimes I wish people had a neon sign over their head saying "not this one" or "pick him!" LOL! I used to think I'd find someone to build a future with, but lately I've been leaning more towards doing it all myself. You know, th ings like making sure my retirement is in check, thinking of buying a truck to pull a trailer or a boat, because I just don't want to wait around for someone while the days pass by. If I happen to find a great guy then awesome, but until then I think I'm just gonna meet some new friends and hang out. I'm the farthest thing from insecure or smothering and don't like those qualities in a guy. I just want to be me, be real, have fun, make memories, live life, enjoy my friends and family, and serve when I can. I do volunteer once a month packing care packages for our troops still deployed. What's below is from my original profile which I'm in the process of updating.
So I've had many comments about my profile, both good and bad so I guess I should explain that I do have a sense of humor like no other. I'm pretty independent and don't put up with BS or allow people to treat me badly, just as I would never dream of treating someone else badly. The way I see it I'm not for everyone and not everyone's for me so if we don't mesh we just move on, no biggie. I'll be the first to tell you I don't chase anything that doesn't chase me back, sorry but no one's that special.
SHOES FOR SALE!!!!
Be cautioned my friend!! These shoes have been worn!! Oh yes, when they were new how shiny and pristine they were. But somewhere, with time, came some scratches, cracking in the leather, even some pebbles along the way. Nobody’s worn these shoes for quite some time and they’ve had time to sit by the wayside, being repaired with time. The leather’s been reconditioned with the best of oils and the pebbles removed so the soles could bounce back into position. Only the person that is perfectly fit for these shoes will get to wear them. They must fit just right with toes sliding into the grooves and no rubbing. They can’t be too tight or too loose. And remember….when you find a good pair of shoes you’d better take care of them…the right shoes don’t just come along every day. Many people get all the way to the end of the mall and never find their shoes…..because they spent too much time looking back over their shoulder at the shoes they had or wanted to have, or going back to get the other shoes only to find they’d already been sold, and not appreciating the value of the shoes right in front of them. Worse yet, some people actually wear shoes that don't fit them and limp through life thinking they have the perfect pair, not realizing how rediculous they look with those "trendy" shoes on that totally don't go with their style just to say they have them. (This is a quote from the book I'm writing but it just seems to go with this site. LOL!)
Who am I?? I guess I’d have to say it depends on the situation… I can get dressed up and catch someone’s eye, but I can also be dressed in sweats or jeans and a t-shirt and feel just as pretty. I like Spring and Fall and love a warm summers day...I like bright nail polish on my toes in the summer and flip flops and cut-offs and rafting down the river and BBQ's and my hot tub...pretty much anything to do with water. :) I like country, R&B, alternative rock, some light rock, and most 80's music.
I'm looking for a man who loves who he is and desires just one woman. I am attracted to fit, trustworthy, confident, loving, ambitious men. I am awaiting the man of my dreams and though I know he won't be perfect, he'll be perfect for me....I know he exists, somewhere. :) I want to share special moments, failures and accomplishments. I want to have a meaningful, honest relationship with the right man.
Coffee, drinks, lunch, dinner....a public place (that has a window in the bathroom in case it doesn't work out~~ LMAO!! Just kidding!!!) hehehe!!