My closest friends describe me as a sweet spirited person. I like to have fun and laugh and dance without a care in the world in my free time. I like to spend time with friends and nuture and maintain my close relationships with friends. Work and everyday life can sometime take that from us. I am at a point in my life where I am tired of all the drama and games. I won't entertain drama or nurture your past issues...and if you have drama or past issues that you are trying to bring to someone elses life... please go find someone else who will entertain that and good luck with that. I am looking for a "real person" someone who knows who they are and is comfortable with it and one who is comfortable with me being me. I am a deep person and fairly complex...I do speak my mind. I have my own house and pay all my own bills no problem...I don't need a man to do that for me nor am I searching for that...but it would be nice to have someone to share my time with and enjoy and share life with...I like to laugh a lot and let loose and have fun... I am seeking a strong-willed confident man that knows what he wants out of life and is not afraid to pursue it. I know no one is perfect, but please be a man with goals in your life...I'm down for compromise for someone showing effort. Having ambition and confidence and being open-minded is a big turn on. You need to be be strong-willed to be my friend let alone something more. If you are: needy, insecure, extra sensitive, jealous or possessive those are all BIG TIME turn offs and are traits that I can pick up on easily... So if you are the type to blow up my phone 24/7 or text me with nonsense (you should know yourself well enough to know if you would do this), please find someone else to play those games...I am not the one, but I sincerely wish you the best of luck. I am not here to babysit anyone or pet your ego or be anyone's mother...I would like you to become a part of my life and witness my life and not be the one who will try to take me from my life and change me because I won't let that happen. I would like to be part of your life as well. I am looking for a someone to develop a friendship with first and possibly something more later. I like to laugh and have fun in any situation (when appropriate of course). I am very open minded and like many types of activities, music and people...I like tv and movies, but I am not the type that likes to be cooped up all day...I need to be active and doing stuff...even if it's just long walks at the park, lake or going outside to talk etc...I would like to find something deep and meaningful...but that is something that has to be worked for by getting to know me....so I am looking to see where this goes. Let's take it slow and get to know each other...things that start fast end fast...with that said... Thank you for viewing my page and good luck with what you are searching for and don't be afraid to drop a line even if it's just a hello. We all have a story. What's yours?
UPDATE: No Ex-games please. If you have an ex's you are talking to or close to...I don't want any part of that...I don't need any extra drama or bs. Thank You!!
UPDATE: 05/30/2012 I was told my about me section had no strong theme and is pretty vague, over expressive, hard to understand with no motive behind your purpose. (So here is an updated version) My ideal would be a long-term relationship. I know that is not going to happen overnight I have to get to know someone before this can happen, but my potential partner is someone that has these qualities (no particular order): Takes care of himself (exercises, showers ...the more the better); A good listener; Faithful/Loyal/Committed/Trustworthy; Sensitive (to my needs and looks to meet them)(emotionally, physically, spiritually); Adaptable (adaptable to home life, work and socially) (someone that does not fold under pressure or to the changes what life has to throw); Humble (shows humility and is honest and respectful; Provision Oriented (someone that will contribute to the relationship) (helps out and is a gentleman); A man of his word (someone I can count on and someone who can speak the truth); Assertive; Someone that will protect me; Has goals in life; Is able to laugh and joke let loose and have a good time. In all, if you're a good man to and do right by me I will be the best woman I am to you and you will receive my love and respect.
Dinner, Coffee, etc...Let's find a nice place to get to know each other and see if we would like to pursue anything further.