Considering how most men are treating women on here because they don't have a photo, I'm thinking chivalry is pretty dead in the USA, or at least California. Hopefully they don't get dates, but women keep lowering their standards. I like not having a photo, when I do, people are nothing but flattering, and this way I get to see their true colors! This way I end up dating nicer guys!
As long as we're both happy, it sounds like a good first date, so I'm open. Maybe we can volunteer somewhere.