Words are NOT enough!
I will use MUSIC then to speak directly...
to your heart, mind and greater Being.
The music will speak for me.
Ronnie Dunn - We all bleed red. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RVSOOBQB6I0 We are NOT just physical.
The Waterboys - Spirit https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_7-Ol1XdO_A
Capitol Cities song: 'Safe and Sound' https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=47dtFZ8CFo8
Carly Simon - Life is Eternal https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1eR1ni6sZK4
We all go through a lot...one way or another. Beth Nielsen Chapman's 'Sand and Water'. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vHf7DtRa5TY
Absurdity is often hilarious and yet...poignant. Case in that point: Jim Stafford's 'Cows with guns'.
Love the simple pleasures in relationship: Jethro Tull's 'Wond'ring Aloud' https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O2OSm3S2mHQ
Do you know that...'None of us are free' IF...? Soloman Burke https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eFkmRp_G2uo
If we play it safe in life all the time, fulfillment suffers. Mary Chapin Carpenter's 'I take my chances'. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=heDoJZG6qOE
We are 'the human family'. An injustice to one is an injustice against all of us. We are connected.
Listen to Jeffrey Osborne sing: 'If My Brother is in trouble'. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w7KyWjMZEtY
Ray LaMontagne's song: Be Here Now. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBSnR4ZP2MI
Yes...I know...I've made it such that to get to know me you either have to just read this and choose to write or not OR...
IF you are interested enough, you will INVEST YOURSELF into 'feeling out' who this soul is by listening to and perhaps watching the videos's indicated.
Relationship DOES take investment. It takes...going in deeper instead of staying in the shallows. How deep must one
go to 'know' another soul? THAT is a great question to consider. Does it necessarily mean 'slowing down' my world some; and taking my eyes away from the frenetic events about me and from the 'distractions' aplenty and actually 'connect'...heart to heart, mind to mind with another human Being? Well, yes. In a relationship...another person becomes a central focus. We begin to consider them as well as ourselves relative to decisions that have to be made for instance. That devotion of time and Being doesn't happen all at once but it does start right here on POF. The investment of oneself. Depending upon how much you want that relationship and depending further upon the QUALITY of relationship you seek, you will invest yourself more here. You will share more of yourself and by that I mean your depth. We male fish will be able to tell if you are serious and worthwhile fish or...just another nibbler distracting us from our finding the real winner. What REALLY matters to you in this world? What STANDS have you've taken in life? What WILL you stand for and what won't you stand for in life? Will you just...'take it' in life? Whatever someone, a person or government wants to give you? As an example maybe you will allow any ol' vaccine into your body. Maybe you will go along with 'mandatory vaccinations. On the other hand maybe you have a healthy survival instinct and have already done your research on the subject and KNOW how toxic and harmful most of them are and so...NO, you will not go along and allow them to poison you. Are you aware at all? Share who you are with us so we know what we are getting. I want to know if the Salmon I am buying at my local store is Genetically modified or not! Same thing. Truth in advertising. Make it clear what the goods here are. Are you safe to eat? (-; Invest yourself. Who is this heart reaching out into the world? know yourself, share yourself and love yourself.
If you as a fisher-woman don't care what you catch then you are likely to catch any ol STD, errr...thing. You just wad a bit of bread onto the hook and throw the line out there without any real intent behind it. Your not considering what your doing (really Being) deeply enough. Your wasting our time. Your not paying attention. You not serious. Your lazing about in your boat watching the clouds. The fish aren't taking you seriously, you offer nothing but distraction.
As a fisher-woman, you should be clear enough about what you seek that you can describe it with words BECAUSE you have put that much thought and intent into it.
You could consider: What kind of fish are there in this pond/lake? What do I really want? What bait do the serious anglers round here use? Maybe another persons method won't fit your needs. That's fine but, maybe you don't want to use 'sexy' pics to lure men in who will only look at you physically and as a sex object. So...you consider...as a more serious angler how you want to really project yourself. What QUALITES do you have that can be 'lures' too but aren't sexual in nature, that you want a partner to desire and appreciate in you? What...VALUES do you bring to any relationship? You have gifts in life, things and qualities you ARE naturally good or great at. What are they? Tell us here. Get us interested and sniffing around. Have us go beyond the physical since what is INSIDE is what will make for a lasting relationship. Am I wrong? Know THYSELF. Honor thyself, love thyself.
Some of you can't write about yourself here because you DON'T know who you are...at depth since you haven't gone there. Secondly, many have such low self esteem that they can't see their own GLORY and so can't own it and thus express it let alone write it here. YES, I said it. Did you miss it? I said there is a 'glorious' aspect to all of us, a magnificence even for that matter that most have no clue about but, I DO. I can SEE your greatness and I AM your partner in bringing that out as any worthwhile partner would.
I can share who I am with you in a whole other context thru MUSIC than I can with words though it looks like I did ok with those here. PICTURES are another case in point. At any rate, I got bored with the usual profile 'fill' and thought I'd experiment a bit. See what kind of fish THIS music bait will work with. I know...likely a rare few but that is ok as I know this is a sort of 'filter'. You see, I am looking for serious contenders for fish of the year. If you've gotten this far...I just may WANT you.
I want to have my picture in the paper with my arm around my catch and love all in my eyes as I look at her. And there we are on the dock, all dolled up, lookin our finest. People will say "yeah, that was one of the better fish caught in these here parts in many a year!" Then we will put that picture in a frame and place it over the fireplace and go..."ahhhh, so nice". And there we sit, each with our 'prize' beside us.
Mine a Snickers bar and yours...a sour apple candy. (-;
You DO have a sense of humor and appreciation of a bright and cre
Make it 'first meeting' as really...that is all that matters at this point.
It is only at or after the 'meeting' of the other person that one can really tell, know or feel that does or does not exist a pull, interest or desire to see the person again.