To me life is an adventure and adventures are more fun when they are shared. I'm happy on my own but it is just soooo nice to share life with someone, to have laughs together (or on occasion to cry together), to eat, sleep and love together, and do everyday things like go to the store together. So I am hoping to find that special someone to laugh and love with. I have a wonderful life and an unusual, satisfying career and I have great friends. And I would love to share my life with someone with whom intimacy, closeness, ease and laughter come effortlessly. I love animals and people and can be very outgoing. At the same time I can be quite a recluse as well. I can be super mellow, sometimes I work hard, and I have a bit of a wild side too.
I used to be a workaholic but I have seen the error of my ways. I now strive for a balanced life style.
I am playful and can be spontaneous, I am intuitive and empathic. I am very sensitive and this is a gift as well as sometimes a challenge for me, but I have learned to balance being out in the world, giving to others, and taking care of myself when I need some time out.
Even though I can be super practical and can get a lot done, I am a sensual and very feminine being and I would love to be with a man who loves that part of me, someone who would cherish being the yang to my yin.
My ideal man makes me smile when I set my eyes on him and makes my heart go pitter patter and at the same time I feel at home and at ease with him. He is strong, gutsy, fun, sensitive, can make himself vulnerable, but is not at all a pushover. He doesn't have to be rich but he needs to have a sense of purpose or service in his life. I'd love him to have a good sense of humor and to love adventure, adventures of the inner worlds as well as the outer. I would like someone athletic who likes to do outdoorsy stuff but would hope that is not all he is into. He is open to family and community life but can also be quiet. Someone who can think outside the box and is willing to try something new once in a while.
I'm kind of old-fashioned when it comes to dating. I like a man who can be a gentleman. But in general old fashioned is the last thing my friends would call me. I like to be asked out, what we do is not important.
As to the relationship I want:
The most important thing for me is that there is love, mutual adoration and good physical chemistry.
The next important thing is that we have fun together in lots of ways.
I've come to see that having shared values is also needed.
I'd like to be in a relationship where we can open each other more then we are able to open on our own, we help each other be more open/awake/alive then we already are.
I prefer committed monogamous relationships.
Other then that the format a relationship takes is not so important
However if all the above is there, I do like living with my partner.
I'm open to relocating or living in 2 places. I have 3 acres here on Maui that I intend to keep. My work can go with me wherever I go.
What does being *conscious* mean to me?
Being able to think outside the box, aware of a deeper meaning, being aware of the oneness of everything, believing in love as the underlying lifeforce, understanding the law of attraction,
knowing that all is well.
I've been dabbling with consciousness enhancing practices since I am 14 years old and got fully engaged on the spiritual path at age 18.
I guess my motivation back then was a mix of genuine curiosity, being discontent with the status quo and trying to find relief from pain. Even though I have been looking at life from a spiritual angle for a long time, I am very much in the world. I love the internet and all the new developments it offers.
What is the top priority in my life right now?
Living a life where work, play, rest, intimacy and adventure are balanced
being creative with video projects in my work.