I changed my intenet to, "I want to date but nothing serious". I've finally found myself & discovered that I don't "need" someone in my life, it's simply what I want. Unfortunately, I have became the scorned woman who is afraid of getting too involved again. So please tell me your intentions up front. If you only want to date, that's fine, if I know that. I thought for a long time that I wanted to get married again, now it is going to take someone special to make me think that again.
Please be independant, self supporting & dentally sound.
I'm looking for a guy who like sports, especially baseball & hockey, possibly NASCAR & local short track racing, knows hows to treat a woman, someone who actually has time for a woman in his life, shows her attention & affection & is willing to meet within a week of talking, I'm not looking for a pen pal!
Two cats currently live in my home. I will not give up my cats for anyone. So if you are allergic, someone close to you is allergic that would spend time with us or you just don't like cats, you're barking up the wrong tree.....sorry, couldn't think of anything cat related to write there! LOL!
My friends tell me I'm being too picky. Well, I've been divorced twice, I think it's time to be picky & learn from my past mistakes. I'm very outgoing & I like to be out doing things. I use to bowl on a women's league & in tournaments, but I have herniated disks in my back. I have very little pain in my back now, but I'm afraid to try bowling again. I get together with my girlfriends often. Sometimes we include the guys, but often we just need our girl time. Calling or texting me to see how my night with the girls was is ok, but asking me several times when I'm going to be home is not. I encourage you to have your time out with the guys also.
This doesn't mean that we have to be out all the time, because I know that gets expensive. I also like to stay home, eat a home cooked meal, preferrably made by you (ok, I can cook!) & watch a movie snuggled up on the couch. Which reminds me, WHEN & if we ever get to this point, I like to sleep snuggled up to my guy. So if you like your own space in bed, this is probably not going to work out.
I miss the simple things from having a man in my life....a kiss good night, flowers for no reason (buy them at the grocery store, it's ok!), silly little gifts, inside jokes, someone to talk to & get ideas from when life's problems attack all at once.
So hopefully I haven't scared you off. And if I have, you weren't the one for me! Good luck in your quest for a mate. I hope to hear from you soon! And please be more creative when writing to me than, "you are pretty, beautiful, gorgeous, etc." I've heard that a million times! And yes, I know I have big beautiful eyes. :)
A first date doesn't have to be extravagant, but it does have to be in a public place. It can be something as simple as meeting at the mall to sit & chat or a little more like lunch, dinner, coffee or drinks.