No relationship is a waste of time. If it did not bring you what you wanted it taught you what you don't want. We have all hear and understand baggage is a part of everyone's life, however; am only looking for carry on. My carry on is I am stubborn, independent, SPONTANEOUS and work alcoholic.
Have you ever gone on a meet and greet and felt like you were on a job interview? When I talk with someone on the phone I am always honest. If I run into you in the grocery store I want to be able to smile and say hi not blush and hide. Some believe in love at first sight, I do not. The cover is not what the story is always about. I learned the hard way if you can be friends there is a foundation and time takes care of the rest.
So what am I looking for? Someone who is not afraid or bored with life. If you still challenge yourself, want to be spoiled, not threatened by a independent woman, like to explore, smile, laugh we need to talk.
I realize most just look at pictures for those that read, no I am not bald but platinum was not a choice for hair LOL.
I can count on one hand how many times I have meet someone without talking to them. So yes I will want to text and talk first. As far as the first date that's what I meant by can you take charge. If am someone you want to date we would have common interest, you would know am not out to hurt you, use you or abuse you. Going for a walk in a favorite park, cooking out while killing a bottle of wine, roller skating I can go on and on, can you?